Someone who is missing needs alot of hugs

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Hi
There was a thread not long ago abut people who don't make appearences on here anymore. The main person who I noticed was Cheryl-Bellaandme, I know there was a bit of a misunderstanding regards an incident with Bella which I think is just best forgotten now, people had their own opinions which they are entitled to but Bellaandme felt the need to stay off here for a while as she felt she had caused upset.
I messaged her to see how she is getting on as I really do miss her on here and unfortunately Bella passed away not long ago and Cherly is understandably very upset and lost without her friend, she really wants to pay a tribute to Bella but is not sure how people will react after that thread, I told her to come back and that there are alot of people on here that miss her.
I will leave it upto Cheryl to post a memorial for Bella but I think she needs alot of love at the minute if anyone can send her some.x


R.I.P Bella
 

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A lot of people can't face the Bridge anyway, but she can still make a thread regardless.

At the end of the day the Bridge forum is to pay respects to any animal no matter what's happend.
 

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I don't know anything about the misunderstanding but I am sorry to hear about Bella. Please pass my
to Cheryl. Will light a candle for Bella.
 

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Aww Im so sorry....I remember what thread you are talking about and I hope she doesnt feel like she cant ever come back here.

Cheryl if you read this...Im so sorry for your loss....Please come back!!!
 

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Originally Posted by 3CatsN1Dog

Aww Im so sorry....I remember what thread you are talking about and I hope she doesnt feel like she cant ever come back here.

Cheryl if you read this...Im so sorry for your loss....Please come back!!!
That goes for me too!
 

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Oh my goodness, I am so, SO sorry to hear this!
I miss Cheryl very much and stood by her when the "incident" happened. I am literally crying to hear of Bella's passing, how horrible!
Cheryl, you are very much in my thoughts sweetheart!
 

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I know nothing about this. However I do know how it feels to lose a cat friend. Please pass love and hugs to Cheryl from me. Thanks.
 

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I'm so sorry to hear about Bella and Cheryl if your reading this I am sending my deepest condolences to you. I hope Bella had a peaceful passing.
 

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I have no clue of what happened, but I am so sorry for the loss of Bella

Come back Cheryl

RIP Bella
 

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So very sorry about Bella! Cheryl I wish you the best and hope you feel you are still welcome here! No clue about the incident, but will be more than happy to have another cat lover to hang out with here!
 

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I'm so sorry to hear of Bella's passing and I know that Cheryl will need the support of her fellow cat lovers right now. Please come back! We all have our differences of opinions and misunderstandings and such are just a part of life, don't feel obliged to stay away. I'm sure everyone here will just have sympathy for you and no hard feelings.
 
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Thanks everyone, I have spoken to Cheryl and I think she is very deeply touched by all your comments. She said she will be returning soon but I don't think she is quite ready yet which is very understandable after her loss. Like others have said we all have difference of opinions from time to time but when the going gets tough we all pull together on here. xx
 

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Originally Posted by yayi

I don't know anything about the misunderstanding but I am sorry to hear about Bella. Please pass my
to Cheryl. Will light a candle for Bella.


My prayers are with her and Bella
 

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I'm another one that doesn't know anything about what happened, but whatever it was, I'm really sorry that it's made her feel that way... especially now.

I am SO sorry about Bella.
Please send my condolences. I hope when she's ready, she'll post a tribute. I'm so sorry. Please let her know my thoughts and prayers join the others!
 

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I hope Cheryl will return to TCS as soon as she's ready. We want her back! Please let her know that my prayers are with her and I am very sorry about Bella.
 

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I am brand new to this forum and also don't know what happened but I'm sorry for the loss of Bella. It is never ever easy to lose an animal friend. Truly the only ones that give unconditonal love. I hope you feel better soon.
 
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