I am guessing there are very few people who have had this problem, but any input is so greatly appreciated.
My mom is a fighter. I mean, she would fight with a stump just to fight with it and argue all day and night until she fell asleep, then she'd wake up, make a pot of coffee and go at it again. I live with her, have all my life, and I'm not moving due to my owning half this house and it'll be mine one day, and I'll have a house paid for, and I love my house to boot.
So, problem is, Mom can't "talk" to people. She yells and sounds very brash to begin with. We're already screwed up the possibility of talking to our neighbors directly across the street (we live at a dead end in a neighboorhood built in 1975, excuse the typos, I put on dollar tree fake nails last night for the heck of it and I'm having extreme issues typing lol)
It started out as the neighbor woman having her boyfriend come over in his tractor trailer (Rig only) and parking it in front of our house, at the dead end, on his side of the street. They asked if it was ok with us. we said sure. Well, this guy was a nasty mess and dropped trash in the road (Which my mother spent 4 hard long years getting paved by the state DOT and trust, it was a hard battle with those people) We like to keep our roads clean, you know? We're proud of the work my Mom got done.
So that battle went on until he brought TWO rigs down here and parked them side by side, on my side of the street and his. It escalated to more trash, more arguing, cops being called, to the point where you can't just talk to them, they just yell at us in return. I talk calmly but I've never taken the chance, I would just call the law. Needless to say, while trying to take care of Boo and do my third shift job, this has put me on meds to keep sane.
So now, after a few other really penny ante things, a new neighbor has moved in up the street and also drives a truck. They've made friends with our neighbor, and they've told him he could park his truck in front of our house.
Important to note it's not blocking my mailbox, or my driveway per say, we can get out alright. Mom's intent on calling the Sheriff again, and I'm just not in the mood to deal with it. I am at my wits end here. I am in the process of getting a 50C (Civil No Contact Order) drawn up on the across the street neighbors due to their 13 year old teen boys calling me mother some really derogatory names.
I know the Sheriff will tell her there isn't anything they can do, he's not blocking the right of way, though it is questionable why he's parking all the way down here, halfway down the street from his house and not up at his house. I have nothing against truckers by the way, I work with them on a daily basis and most are great guys.
I am just clueless. When she talks to the Sheriff, she goes on and on and on and they get annoyed with her. So I have to do it, get my point across clearly and quickly and leave it at that. We've had better experiences with me doing it than her. Anyway. Last night he parks it (I was at a friend's house) and when I come home she says she told the guy he can't park there. Guy says the neighbors told him he could. She told him he'd have to move it by in the morning but it's still out there. I said Mom, he's not running it at all hours, and as long as he's not littering in the street like the other guy (Who doesn't come by anymore) what's the problem, really? SHe said he was really nice. I hate to have to have ANOTHER neighbor that we've started a fight with. Seems he moved it down here because another neighbor up the other way got fed up and wanted it moved. So here we are.
And she's calling them right now. I have to go to work tonight, I need sleep, I don't know what to do about this. Let me make this very clear: My mother cannot be told No. I can't tell her not to do something, then I get turned on. It's one of those... rock and a hard place. I go through my xanax way quicker than I'm supposed to, you know?
Nothing's happened to us or our property but I'm very concerned that sooner or later someone's going to get fed up with this and do something. THAT is a crime and they can be arrested, but I don't want it going that far.
As far as the truck and the laws, if he's not blocking a throughway, nothing cops can do. If he's blocking a fire hydrant, we've been told the firetruck will shove his truck straight into the woods and the owner of that truck will be liable for all damages to the firetruck.
So, what the heck should I do? I am so lost, so tired of this, ... I want to be a recluse..... *sigh*
My mom is a fighter. I mean, she would fight with a stump just to fight with it and argue all day and night until she fell asleep, then she'd wake up, make a pot of coffee and go at it again. I live with her, have all my life, and I'm not moving due to my owning half this house and it'll be mine one day, and I'll have a house paid for, and I love my house to boot.
So, problem is, Mom can't "talk" to people. She yells and sounds very brash to begin with. We're already screwed up the possibility of talking to our neighbors directly across the street (we live at a dead end in a neighboorhood built in 1975, excuse the typos, I put on dollar tree fake nails last night for the heck of it and I'm having extreme issues typing lol)
It started out as the neighbor woman having her boyfriend come over in his tractor trailer (Rig only) and parking it in front of our house, at the dead end, on his side of the street. They asked if it was ok with us. we said sure. Well, this guy was a nasty mess and dropped trash in the road (Which my mother spent 4 hard long years getting paved by the state DOT and trust, it was a hard battle with those people) We like to keep our roads clean, you know? We're proud of the work my Mom got done.
So that battle went on until he brought TWO rigs down here and parked them side by side, on my side of the street and his. It escalated to more trash, more arguing, cops being called, to the point where you can't just talk to them, they just yell at us in return. I talk calmly but I've never taken the chance, I would just call the law. Needless to say, while trying to take care of Boo and do my third shift job, this has put me on meds to keep sane.
So now, after a few other really penny ante things, a new neighbor has moved in up the street and also drives a truck. They've made friends with our neighbor, and they've told him he could park his truck in front of our house.
Important to note it's not blocking my mailbox, or my driveway per say, we can get out alright. Mom's intent on calling the Sheriff again, and I'm just not in the mood to deal with it. I am at my wits end here. I am in the process of getting a 50C (Civil No Contact Order) drawn up on the across the street neighbors due to their 13 year old teen boys calling me mother some really derogatory names.
I know the Sheriff will tell her there isn't anything they can do, he's not blocking the right of way, though it is questionable why he's parking all the way down here, halfway down the street from his house and not up at his house. I have nothing against truckers by the way, I work with them on a daily basis and most are great guys.
I am just clueless. When she talks to the Sheriff, she goes on and on and on and they get annoyed with her. So I have to do it, get my point across clearly and quickly and leave it at that. We've had better experiences with me doing it than her. Anyway. Last night he parks it (I was at a friend's house) and when I come home she says she told the guy he can't park there. Guy says the neighbors told him he could. She told him he'd have to move it by in the morning but it's still out there. I said Mom, he's not running it at all hours, and as long as he's not littering in the street like the other guy (Who doesn't come by anymore) what's the problem, really? SHe said he was really nice. I hate to have to have ANOTHER neighbor that we've started a fight with. Seems he moved it down here because another neighbor up the other way got fed up and wanted it moved. So here we are.
And she's calling them right now. I have to go to work tonight, I need sleep, I don't know what to do about this. Let me make this very clear: My mother cannot be told No. I can't tell her not to do something, then I get turned on. It's one of those... rock and a hard place. I go through my xanax way quicker than I'm supposed to, you know?
Nothing's happened to us or our property but I'm very concerned that sooner or later someone's going to get fed up with this and do something. THAT is a crime and they can be arrested, but I don't want it going that far.
As far as the truck and the laws, if he's not blocking a throughway, nothing cops can do. If he's blocking a fire hydrant, we've been told the firetruck will shove his truck straight into the woods and the owner of that truck will be liable for all damages to the firetruck.
So, what the heck should I do? I am so lost, so tired of this, ... I want to be a recluse..... *sigh*