i love my cat Daphne, but sometimes she's terrified of the outdoors, and other times she goes out there just when i least expect it! example: the day I left for my christian gathering-thingy for a whole week, kitty disapeared. my father said he'd seen her way down in the back of the yard the day before. id seen her since then, but it was weird cuz she hardly ever goes outside! (we found her in the house though.) today i tried to take her out on a harness and leash, and she had NONE of it. she cried and whined and hid near the house. I got her in through the basement door, but it was like she was having a panic attack! why does she want to be outside some days, but not others even when there's no weather differences?