Lola who is approximately 9 weeks old now is driving Dexter my almost 2 year old cat nuts!
The two have bonded. I catch him grooming her all the time and he generally wants to be in whatever room she is in. However Lola doesn't seem to understand that it is not okay to jump on his head when he sleeping and that he doesn't like being stalked and pounced all the time.
She stays away from Milo who has made it clear that he doesn't like her but poor Dexter is her favorite toy. She follows him around jumping on his back and face. He is definitley annoyed. His tail will twitch, sometimes when he has had enough his ears will go back and he will swat her to tell her to stop. She doesn't seem to get the message and will continue until he lets out a meow, bites her and takes off. I have even seen him sit on her when she goes nuts on him but nothing stops her crazy antics.
Dexter really likes her when she is calm. He likes to cuddle and groom her but those sessions quickly turn aggressive. I am worried that he might actually hurt Lola when she wont stop pestering him.
Also on a few occasions when Lola is being particularly annoying. Dexter will walk away, see Milo, let out an attack meow and bite him instead.
The two have bonded. I catch him grooming her all the time and he generally wants to be in whatever room she is in. However Lola doesn't seem to understand that it is not okay to jump on his head when he sleeping and that he doesn't like being stalked and pounced all the time.
She stays away from Milo who has made it clear that he doesn't like her but poor Dexter is her favorite toy. She follows him around jumping on his back and face. He is definitley annoyed. His tail will twitch, sometimes when he has had enough his ears will go back and he will swat her to tell her to stop. She doesn't seem to get the message and will continue until he lets out a meow, bites her and takes off. I have even seen him sit on her when she goes nuts on him but nothing stops her crazy antics.
Dexter really likes her when she is calm. He likes to cuddle and groom her but those sessions quickly turn aggressive. I am worried that he might actually hurt Lola when she wont stop pestering him.
Also on a few occasions when Lola is being particularly annoying. Dexter will walk away, see Milo, let out an attack meow and bite him instead.
they are fine!!! There is no violence on the video... just tender kitty-style education! 
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but they will work it out... Specially when there is a kitten involved... If there is a lot of hissing, and you hear loud screaming, spitting, etc, then separate them and start to think towards an introduction. For what you are saying though, it seems to me they are just testing and working out limits. It is important for them to go through that - again, especially the kitten...
