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Doesn't want me to leave?

post #1 of 5
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Hello!
I have a 4-year-old cat called Boo who seems to get really aggressive if I try to head back indoors. She is an outdoor cat, and has not been spayed yet (The Vet is currently sick, and he's the only one I trust enough to give her the operation.) and I'm not sure what to do with her.
I haven't actually been scratched or bitten by her yet, but that's mainly because I could see that she was getting ready to spring on me and grabbed her by the scruff before going inch by inch indoors and locking the screen door behind me. Her eyes got real wide, her pupils dilated and the fur around her neck began to rise as I walked to the door to go inside, then she ran to the door and stood in my way and attempted to bite my feet. I gotta say, I was pretty surprised and I froze until she calmed down, but she got worked up all over again when I tried to go inside again. She's done this several times now, and it's really weird, because I each time I'd be petting her, then I'd get up, explain to her why I had to go, give her a goodbye pat, and then, when I get near the door, she goes batty.
Is it because she doesn't want me to leave her? She's still aggressive when I let her in, so I'm not sure if that's what's up with her.
How do I get her to stop this?
post #2 of 5
It's an odd over stimulation reaction. I've had the same problems in cats. One was an outdoor cat that couldn't be a house cat in part due to being easily over stimulated (even getting himself in a playful mood would be taken out on an unsuspecting person). I couldn't get him to stop fully, and part of that is that he was ~5 years old before getting neutered.

With your cat, spaying will help some. The other part is how you get up to leave. Is part of it just because you have your back to her? (in my case, that's what triggered it)
All you can really do is either don't over stimulate the cat.. which would mean not petting her or use something to distract her. Such as putting down her food right before you get up to go inside.
post #3 of 5
She must have kittens right about now...that can make some cats really overprotective. How long have you had her?
post #4 of 5
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So it's because of the way I pet her? Or just being petted? I mean, I have noticed that when I get to the top of her head, she gets really happy, and even stands on her back legs sometimes just so that more pressure could be put around her ears while I'm petting them.

But, yeah, she does have kittens at the moment, but they're already several months old, and don't need her anymore. I've actually noticed her batting them away when they come to drink milk, and they've begun to steer clear of her.
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Originally Posted by Cat's_Pyjamas View Post
So it's because of the way I pet her? Or just being petted? I mean, I have noticed that when I get to the top of her head, she gets really happy, and even stands on her back legs sometimes just so that more pressure could be put around her ears while I'm petting them.

But, yeah, she does have kittens at the moment, but they're already several months old, and don't need her anymore. I've actually noticed her batting them away when they come to drink milk, and they've begun to steer clear of her.
She is aggressive because of hormones, and honestly if she has kittens that are a few months old, she is probably pregnant again. I urge you to look into any local groups that will to reduced rate or capture and release spay/neuter. It's not fare to anyone to live like this.
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