I'm losing Dusty

We've had Dusty for nearly 6 years since she decided to adopt us. We think she is about 8, but can't be sure. She has always been an in/out cat. We know she has CRF, diagnosed last year, but she's probably had it much longer than that.

She is anemic. She just recovered from a nasty ear infection. She's losing weight, and now won't eat at all. We just spent a fortune on her with bloodwork and all, and we really can't afford much more. Also I believe her quality of life is more important than quantity, so I really don't want to put her through any more treatment. How do I know when it is time for the final shot?

My heart is breaking. She is the most loving and trusting kitty ever, and I don't know what I will do without her.

Oh I'm so sorry.

Ask her, she'll tell you when she's had enough. It may be now, it may be tomorrow. I agree with you quality of life is the most important thing. If she's not eating, or doing any of the things she loves...she may be telling you she's ready.

I also believe in "too soon is better than too late".

{{hugs}} I know how hard it is. We'll be here for you.

I am so sorry.

The vet just called, and they want me to bring her in for sub Q fluids. So I guess I will be doing that this afternoon.

Originally Posted by Dusty's Mom

The vet just called, and they want me to bring her in for sub Q fluids. So I guess I will be doing that this afternoon.

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Good luck! That seems to help a lot of cats. for Dusty.

I am so very sorry. It is so hard living with this over your head and on your heart.

On those times I have had to offer the ultimate kindness, my comfort came when I looked back and could say that my cat did not suffer long. That was a huge comfort to me after the fact.

I will say a prayer for Dusty and you. I know how hard it is. We all do.

God bless.

Oh, I am so sorry. You and Dusty are both in my prayers.

I am so sorry what you are going through. I agree with all that has been said. As hard as it always is, I would rather turn them loose, than watch them be reduced to pitiful cats. I don't want them to suffer. I think it is important to consider them, not us. Hugs. We are here for you.

More vibes and prayers for you and Dusty.

I'm so sorry to hear this.. It must be so hard. I hope the fluids help her..

to you and your family during this hard time..

We are all here for you

Sweetie, I am sending tons and tons of vibes for Dusty!

I, too, have a Kidney Cat as I like to refer to him, and thought we were going to lose him last time he had to go on antibiotics, because he got so sick from the treatment. Hubby and I decided that we would NOT put him through that again! But the good news is, once he finally recovered from being so sick from the various antibiotics we forced on him, he slowly started eating again, and now is doing pretty good.

Here's hoping just getting some fluids in her will help immensely. Most times it does. And IF it does, you can easily do them for her at home, even if you think you can't!!

Prayers and good vibes for you and Dusty

I hoped I might see some good news here this am.

I am so sorry that your precious kitty isn't doing so well. I am sending lots of and

Lots of vibes

We have a kitty at the shelter who is around 6 years old. He developed CFR a couple months back. He had a very bad spell where he stoped eating and was totally dehydrated. He was 6.5 lbs. He is now close to 8 lbs and is doing very well. We had to spend one day feeding him small amounts of food every couple of hours. That combined with daily sub-q fluids, made all the differnce in the world. After that he started eating on his own & gaining weight. His blood values are holding steady. It might be worth a shot just to spend some time & effort treating her with home care. If she doesn't bounce back then at least you know you did all you could.

I am praying for you and Dusty. This is such a tough situation.

The fluids may help her. Casey spent a whole day at the vet getting fluids and then I administered a prescribed amount to him every day. It was not a difficult process and although I know he did not like it much, he was brave and took it in stride.

You know your kitty best and you will know when it is time to let her go. Take care!