Question of the Day: Thurs. June 10

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Gmorning folks....

Hope everyone has a good Thursday.

My question today is related to attraction


I would like to know: what physical attribute do you really like on the opposite gender? Is it eyes? Bum? Hair? What?
 

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A beautiful maxilla - It's the empty space between the nose and top lip. Too spacious and it causes a low mouth, then it's like the Grinch from Dr. Seuss or Jamie Lee Curtis. Not enough space makes the top lip and nose too close together. Give me a nice one with a cute philtrum - That's the dimple in the middle of the maxilla! Oh goodness. Odd anatomical answer
but it's the first thing I look at.
 

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This is so funny a question because I am on Match.com and sent an email to a guy who was not used to getting emails from women especially one who looks like me (his words) asked my why I sent him and email and I said it was because of his eyes. Hands down, eyes.

That's why I like another guy I am dating - okay, I am dating more than one - because Marcus has Paul Newman eyes. We are pictures 146 - 147:

http://www.printroom.com/ViewGallery...ery_id=2072094
 

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I love a guys smile. I think of Tom Sellecks smile. And Mike Rowes smile. Totally sexy to me.
 

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Build. I need a muscular man. Not body builder huge, but fit. My husband has the sexiest back and shoulders I've ever seen
 

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The face in general. I really don't look at the body much...I guess the smile and teeth would be the main thing for me. My DH has the sweetest smile...I melt everytime I see it.
 

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Oh yes, I almost forgot. I like to see a man in jeans and tee shirt digging a ditch rather than in a 3 piece suit.

Two years ago our road was sliding into the creek and construction workers were here for 8 months rebuilding it. We had to start eating off paper plates because the dishes were piling up!
 

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The eyes. My sweetie has the nicest eyes. When I first met him - 25 years ago - I really went "boinnnnnnng!!!" My mom, too, when she first met him, said "Ooh. He's got the prettiest eyes."


A nice pair of forearms is also very appealing. I love when a guy rolls up his sleeves to the elbow and there's that forearm action happening.
 

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I love my DH's butt. I love to watch him bowl. Why? Because right before he walks up and lets go of the ball, he has this little butt swing. And that is just the most adorable swing I've ever seen in my life. My GFs have even taken notice to it and they like to tease him about his little butt swing.
 

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Smile for sure.
If a man can communicate through his smile its the best. I love when their smile reaches their eyes. I have seen men of all shapes and sizes and all sorts of different looks... but man, if he has a killer smile it is so magnetic.
 

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Eyes here as well.
You can tell SO much from the eyes and Dana has the most gentle eyes with eyelashes any woman would kill for!
 

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I actually look for a great personality with lots of humor thrown in. As far as a physical attraction, I love a nice smile, one that reaches the eyes so you know it's real. I love a hairy chest on a man, don't laugh. I've been attracted to that all my life
 

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Eyes!
Jake has the most incredible hazel eyes and gorgeous long lashes.
I can and do stare into them for long periods.
Makes him grin and turn pink
 

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Race and accent. I have always loved indian skin tone. I found my guy on craigslist and when he told me he was pakistani I was like oh so cool! then his pic he sent was him in a dress shirt/pants(no tie or suit). Funny thing is I never dated and never thought of a white guy as hot. I am a proud gori(white girl)married to a desi and our only issue is his dislike of cats...or more then 1 cat lol.
 

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There has been absolutely no consistency in physcial attributes of any guy to whom I've been attracted. It's definitely personality first - humor a must - intellect important (though that often goes hand in hand with humor).

In the end, I think it's just a "chemical" connect, though I do like the "rugged" thing, and definitely the jeans and tees


Of course... Gary does have the most amazing smile and eyes.
 
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