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A timid cat

post #1 of 4
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First off, I want to say, there are posts similar to my problem, that I've read on here. But in my case there are a few more things in my situation that have discouraged me.

I adopted 2 cats from the humane society about a year ago. Luckily they love (sometimes tolerate) eachother.
But yesterday my friend asked us to please try and take her cat Logan and see if things can work out. He had become a problem in their home for three reasons.
1.) They just moved to another house and the change scared him
2.) His companion for the 3 years they've had him, just died.
3.) They also just got dogs and the cat is terrified and wouldn't come out of the bathroom, and was so scared he started using that room as his litterbox.

I said I would try and see how it goes, and I didn't expect for them to be comfortable right away. Everyone is fixed and male, in this mix.

We're keeping the this cat in the bedroom with his own litterbox and food/water bowls. He's been buried back in the corner of the closet for hours now, refusing to move. He's very timid, and when he even hears the jingle of the other cats collars, he instantly hisses and bats at anyone close to him (me and my boyfriend).

I'm aware it takes time for them to get along, but with the history of what he has recently gone through, do you still think it can work and be a happy household? I feel bad closing the cat off in that one little room. But I understand it.

I couldn't NOT give the cat a chance here, if where he was living wasn't a good environment anymore. If it's here, I'd love that. He's the cutest and I just feel bad for all the trauma he's been through all at once and then getting taken here, a strange place.

Anyone with advice, I thank you in advance. Am I doing things right?
post #2 of 4
Aww hes been through so much trauma.... losing his companion, his home and his humans he lived with. Thank you for taking him in.

it will just take time and a lot of patience. Is the bedroom he's in a place where he can be alone with no one around? He needs to get comfortable in the room first.

Don't try to make any contact with him. Just take him food and clean his litter. A lot of people find success in playing really soft music. Also sitting on the floor, in the same room as him, softly reading, so he can adjust to you (not now, after hes been there for a bit and calmed down a little more)

I would also suggest that you get Feliway. Its a diffuser you plug into the wall, that mimics friendly cat pheromones.

Is it possible while you are helping him adjust, that you can remove the bells from your kitty's collars since something about them upsets him?

Just be patient, this could take some time. Follow his lead and dont push him to move quickly. It could take a while.
post #3 of 4
Thread Starter 
The bedroom is completely closed off from the other parts of the house. The other cats scratch at the door being curious but cannot get in.

I'll take your advice and sit in with him quietly. Reading, or doing quiet things. He did come out once when I sat on the floor, but once he heard the cats on the other side of the door scratching, he hissed and ran back to the closet.

I'm looking up stuff about Feliway now, thank you so much!
post #4 of 4
Aww, bless you for taking in this poor little traumatized kitty and your patience - I totally agree with everything that's been suggested. That poor cat's whole life has been turned upside down and every single thing is new to him - just keep up what you're doing. BTW, I find soft classical or new age music (especially harp music) seems very soothing to kitties - and I read a lot of Harry Potter to my two when they were new.
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