I have a very serious request for prayers, vibes, or whatever you can spare...

alicatjoy

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I have debated about posting this all day since I wasn't sure what to say. But, I'm feeling both hopeless and powerless and, at this point, this is all I feel I can do.


*If you are sensitive or in a vulnerable place, please read with caution.*

Please, if you pray or are willing to offer vibes, positive thoughts, or healing energy, my friend is in desperate need. Last night (it may have been in the middle of the night or this morning -- the information I have is scattered at best), my friend's father attempted to take his own life. He is a known addict, although I thought she had told me he was in recovery, and attempted suicide by overdosing on drugs and then turning a gun on himself. He tried to shoot himself in the heart. At this time, I don't know how much aim he had, but I do know that when he tried to take his life, his girlfriend was in the home and she was able to call for help. Once at the hospital, he was listed in critical condition. As of this evening, I know he has gone into cardiac arrest at least once and remains critical. My friend, who has had her issues with her father -- some serious, is in obvious pain. She texted me a while ago and told me that things were "not good," but I've heard nothing since. Needless to say, this is a dire situation...on many levels...

My friend is very fragile emotionally and I'm concerned about her well-being. And, of course, I am hoping that her father makes it through this ordeal and can go on to receive help for his many issues. Emotionally, this is very hard for me too as I feel helpless. And, it doesn't help that this strikes a very familiar chord for me in my life. But, for now, all I can do is pray. And, if anyone else is able or willing to offer vibes or a healing thought, it would be most appreciated.

I don't know what else to say. I guess the above says it all...

Thank you.
 

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I am so sorry for your friend and her father, but glad she has a friend like you who cares enough to stick by her and see her through it. I can only send vibes for a good outcome.
 

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I really am sorry, it just seems terrible that someone can feel that low they resort to this. I am sending huge vibes and hugs for you and you friend
xx
 

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All my vibes, positive and healing energies go out to you, your friend and her father. All too well I can understand the hopeless and helplessness of addiction and the road it can take one on. My thoughts go out for a complete recovering for everyone-- physically, spiritually and emotionally.
 

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for your friend and her family
 

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I'm sending many vibes for your friend and her father. She's really lucky to have you there to help her through this, no matter what happens.
 

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Prayers of healing and comfort for your friend and her father.
 

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How awful... Sending more vibes to your friend and her father to get through this rough time...
 

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Originally Posted by jennyranson

I am so sorry for your friend and her father, but glad she has a friend like you who cares enough to stick by her and see her through it. I can only send vibes for a good outcome.
Sending many and prayers for your friend and her father.
 

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Oh honey... Many many many vibes for your friend's father, your friend, and yourself, to be strong for her...
 

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Originally Posted by Alison Joy

My friend is very fragile emotionally and I'm concerned about her well-being. And, of course, I am hoping that her father makes it through this ordeal and can go on to receive help for his many issues. Emotionally, this is very hard for me too as I feel helpless. And, it doesn't help that this strikes a very familiar chord for me in my life. But, for now, all I can do is pray. And, if anyone else is able or willing to offer vibes or a healing thought, it would be most appreciated.

I don't know what else to say. I guess the above says it all...

Thank you.
I should have listened to your trigger point warning, which, thank you for posting that
It is unfortunately a familiar situation here as well, and is horribly difficult on everyone around.

You know you have my and many healing thoughts. I hope her father finds the strength and is able to pull through this (and get the help he needs), I am so glad your friend has you to lean on (as hard as this is, someone who has firsthand knowledge definately does understand it better than someone who doesn't IMO), I hope your friend is able to find some comfort with you, or some other support, and
and for you as well, that you can find comfort in knowing you are supporting your friend as much as you can.

Words can't exactly describe what I think you know I mean.

Lots of healing thoughts and to all.
 

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I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's father. I would like to add my prayers that he will recover and be able and willing to get help for his issues.
 
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