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post #31 of 43
My heart goes out to you. You've been so kind to us all that I wish there was something I could say to lighten your heart. Hope hearing from us will put a dent in it. My prayers go out to you and Taz.

post #32 of 43
Mary Anne

As I said before, I am just heartbroken about you losing Bartee. I know how tough it is when it happens so unexpectedly -- not that you can ever prepare -- but it comes as such a shock when it happens this way. When I lost my Dudley 10 years ago, a short while afterwards, I wrote a long, long list of everything about him that I didn't want to forget. It helped.

Take care

post #33 of 43
Hissy, I'm so sorry for you loss. I can't imagine what you're feeling right now. Just know there are a lot of people that are here for you. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.
post #34 of 43

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my heart goes out to you. We lost our boy Spike last year and I didn't stop crying for what felt like weeks....
I can tell how well thought of you are by everyone on the site and as a new member just wanted to say how sorry I am about your lovely Bart..
He'll always be with you...
Sam xx
post #35 of 43

MA, if I lost one of my cats, I wouldn't be able to type because I'd be too shaken, so NEVER feel sorry that you're grieving. I know you spent enough time with all the cats to get a feel for each of their unique personalities, so why wouldn't you grieve a friend? It's only natural that you would miss him. You know that we're here for you, and sending comforting vibes your way. Take care of yourself.
post #36 of 43
Mary Anne.... im very sorry to learn of the loss of Bartee. You are a very caring cat/kitty mommy so I understand your grief.... Your bartee is at Rainbow Bridge jumping around and playing with the other kitties there. I believe when a pet dies they could look down on their owners from their place on the bridge and watch over them and protect them from harm. he will always be with you. May little Bartee RIP.
post #37 of 43
Mary Ann,

Having been through the loss of dear ones, I know, as we all do, how you must feel. Although I am at a loss for what to say at times like these, I do know that because of you, his life was much much richer than he otherwise would have had. Take heart in that, and remember, that as he looks down at you from over the bridge, he is in no pain, and will live on forever in your heart.
post #38 of 43
Please know that you, Mike and Bartee are in my thoughts and my prayers. I'm so very sorry to hear that you've lost your little boy. It's so hard...much harder than people can imagine if they haven't experienced this before. This kind of grief isn't even describable, but yet most of us know exactly what it's like. Hang in there Girl and if you need to talk or just vent, we all have open ears & soft shoulders to cry on.
post #39 of 43
I know that words can't fill the empty space in your heart for your dearly departed friend. Cat's are not "just a cat" they are our children and friends. So you take the time to grieve we all understand.

post #40 of 43
believe me i know exactly how you feel and i feel bad for you, so so sorry, i have went throught this 3 times in my life and it wasnt any easier the 3rd time, matter fact it was worse, i felt like i was in outer space for a while, couldnt hardly sleep or consintrate on any thing, once again im so sorry. i dont know what elese to say, i think each person just has to deal with this in their own way, but no one should laugh at any one going through something like this and if some one did, i wouldnt want to be associated with them, because they are sick...
post #41 of 43
Bartee is now one of your angels watching over you and the other kitties you help.
post #42 of 43
I have lost several very special kitties and it hurts every time.

Maybe this why Winken, Blinken and Noddie were brought to you, to help ease your heart through this loss.
post #43 of 43
I'm really sorry about your loss. I know the hurt that you feel and the wondering if there was something else you could have done, I did the same thing when we lost Chip in January. When we lost Chip it was devastating to me and my husband. I just felt numb and lost for a long while afterward. I went over and over in my head about his illness wondering if we did everything right and I was lucky enough to have a vet that really cares and tried so hard to save him but he had FIP and she couldnt save him. Its like losing a member of the family, and I think all of us here understand what you are going through. Bartee was very lucky to have someone like you and your husband to take care of him and you did everything you could to help him. Just wanted to let you know your in my thoughts.
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