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My throat has a lump in it and my heart is so heavy right now. I have a million things to do and I see a lot of posts on here that I could answer, but I just can't seem to find the energy to do so. Mike is as devastated as I am, and this morning when I looked out the window, I thought I saw Bart lying in the grass. Turned out to be Taz-girl.
I know I have a lot of cats but when you lose one it doesn't matter if you have one or twenty, the grief is suddenly there. I know better, but I second guessed myself all day yesterday wondering if there was something I should have seen earlier, something I missed? He was in perfect health a week ago, running under my feet while I fed the horses and pestering me for a drink when I filled the trough. Either he had heart problems or I don't know. I just know I am missing him so much I can't think.
I am not putting this here to get sympathy. I am putting this here, because in this community of cat-lovers you understand the emptiness and the heartache and I won't get laughed at for feeling so destroyed over "just a cat." We are going to get him today. We talked it over and we want him whole, to bury him near the creek where he loved to play with the minnows and frogs. My polydactyl boy......
I know I have a lot of cats but when you lose one it doesn't matter if you have one or twenty, the grief is suddenly there. I know better, but I second guessed myself all day yesterday wondering if there was something I should have seen earlier, something I missed? He was in perfect health a week ago, running under my feet while I fed the horses and pestering me for a drink when I filled the trough. Either he had heart problems or I don't know. I just know I am missing him so much I can't think.
I am not putting this here to get sympathy. I am putting this here, because in this community of cat-lovers you understand the emptiness and the heartache and I won't get laughed at for feeling so destroyed over "just a cat." We are going to get him today. We talked it over and we want him whole, to bury him near the creek where he loved to play with the minnows and frogs. My polydactyl boy......