so sorry......

I'm so sorry everyone, im sorry if i havent been responding to your e-mails and PM's my parents have spilt up, as most of you know I'm only 13, it's very hard, I'm very sad.

I love u all, and im movin soon, i hope i can still hav my comp, im so pathetic i dont no y im tellin u all this, im sorry

sam

I'm sorry. that hard to deal with. Especially if you're only a teenager. I understand, it happened to me twice my mom divorced my real dad, remarried and then after awhile he cheated on her( I didn't know that at the time) so they divorced. it sucked!
Keep your chin up, I'm there for you.

Thank you Barb, it means alot to me to have had someone in the same position, I used to really hate Ian but I'm spending every moment I can with him, My step sister Jess is still going to come and stay with me, coz we are best friends, and Mum & Ian are still going to be friends, but it's not going to be the same , I really don't feel like living

sam

Oh Sam, (((((HUGS))))) It is really hard to go through all this, and you've certainly had more than your fair share in the past couple weeks. Remember, though, the sun will still rise tomorrow. Your kitties will still need you and love you tomorrow. We will still be here for you tomorrow. We will still care for you tomorrow.

Vent all you need to here, Sam. It is a safe place, a safe haven for you. If not on the public boards, know that there are a lot of people here who will be more than happy to be a shoulder for you during this time.

Please don't ever talk of killing yourself! I'd be so upset and would feel like I let you down if you did. and if I'd feel that way, imagine how your parents would feel! Please please don't ever do that ok? Promise me!?

Sam when I was 16 my parents split up for 3 years. I remember the somberness in the air and how I hated to go home just to hear my mother crying in her bedroom. If you have someplace to go, a friend's house, a mentor, someone that you can just hang around with and know you are okay, that will help.

I am so sorry to hear how your life has been in such turmoil lately. Please know a lot of people care for you here. You know where I am and how to reach me if you need to talk, cry or scream.....

Sam I left you a PM dear...

(((((((((((((( HUGS )))))))))))))

It will all work out Sam!

THANKS everyone again for the PM's, I know I have replied privately to you all, but just again, it really means something to me.

Words can not really express how greatful I am to you all here,

Heidi your message was so sweet, I will let you all know how I am and stuff, I will continue to post, but I feel I'm not posting with heart, I love this site but even more so the people here, where would I be if I didn't know the cat site was here loving me, praying for me to be safe.

Barb- It would be so selfish of me to let go of life, I couldn't possibly do that to you guys, and my animals.

Thanks Also, Sicy,Sandra & Mary-Anne, you are all so special!

Thanks!!! love sam

Sam, I just saw this and I am so sorry.
Please know that I am here for you if you need someone to talk to - if you have yahoo or MSN messengers, and want to chat feel free to PM me for my username.

Hugs - you will be okay, hang in there.

((((((((((Sam))))))))))))

We are all here for you. PM me if you ever need to talk, need a shoulder to cry on, or someone to vent to!!!

Sam, don't be afraid to ask for counselling. I had two friends who went through divorces and one attempted suicide and the other committed suicide. I couldn't believe their parents were so selfish as to forget their kids, but now that I'm an adult I have to say that it's totally normal in a divorce situation. Ask for help when you need it. And remember that we'll always be here.

Hi Sam,

I'm so sorry to hear about your parents My folks split up when I was 10 and my sister was 3 (I'm now 31)

It's hard when it happens, but just hang in there and time will make things better. I actually went to live with my dad and my sister with my mum - we found that even though it was hard with them being apart at first; the atmosphere in our respective homes was so much more pleasant. There were no more arguments or tears between them and life was definately more peaceful and less stressful for us kids.

Take care of yourself and I promise you that things will get better.

Oh Sam..I am so sorry this has happened....Just live for yourself, and know that they both still love you no matter what! ((hugs))

Sam I was 30 when my fokes split up, I was mad as h@ll ,but it will get better. Pm me if you want to,like everyone before me WE love you and are here for you!

Oh you guys, I'm sitting here crying again, Thanks for all your lovely messages, they really reduced me to tears.

I'm so sorry to everyone who has been through the same situation, words can't really heal broken hearts and I don't know what to say, Thanks to everyone else, I know where you all are so I can talk to you when I need a shoulder to lean on, Thank you! I love you all as well!

Take Care Friends, & I'll keep you updated!

Love Sam.

Sam I am so sorry that you are going through this. My Mom divorced 3 times before I was 18. We also moved alot even from California to Florida. It was aful being 3000 miles away from my family and friends.

There will be many changes and you will have to decide if you are an egg or potato. An egg becomes hard and tough when heated up, but the potato will become softer and more maliable. You can decide how this is going to change you. Will you use this experience to develope a deeper understanding of what others feel or will you harden your heart toward others to let them tough it out?

I know you are such a sweet and kind hearted person that YOU will make the right decisions. Keep your chin up and be proud of the person you are and the person you are becoming.

We all love you here and miss you when you are gone.

Hugs

Sam, sweetie, please know all of us are thinking of you and are willing to help however we can. Think of us as your cyber-aunts. I know you are going through a very hard time right now.

My parents are still together, but when I was quite young I remember a time when they always seemed to be arguing. I was very scared and worried. I can't say I understand exactly how you feel, but you seem to be an exceptional young woman. Good luck as you and your family go through this.

Thanks Brenda & Teresa!
I'm not sure If I'm an egg or potato, I wanna get through this 'strongly' but I wanna feel that I can cry whenever I need to.

Thanks again, as I said it's hard for me to find the right words to say,

Dearest Sam!
I just saw this tread. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Remember that I, as all the others, are there for you, whenever you need.
Look in your PM box.