Hi everyone, this is my first post here as I don't currently have a cat. It's nice to meet you all.
I have sort of unique situation that I need some advice about. But first, some background:
A very good friend of mine found a stray young cat about 4 years ago and took her in as her pet. Jazira was never the most friendly and cuddly of kitties, but did learn to be around people and could tolerate being picked up and held with little incident, and would sometimes sit on laps and want to be petted. I knew the cat fairly well as I used to hang out at my friend's a lot during college.
Last year a my friend went to Europe for about 7 months. During that time she left her kitty with another friend of ours. She returned to the US just a week ago and was finally able to go pick up her kitty last night, after which she called me practically in tears and told me that her cat had become much more aggressive and ripped up her hand when she tried to get her into the carrier. She attributes this to the fact that, she believes, the people where the cat was staying had minimal interaction with the cat. She definitely can't keep the cat herself in this condition as she currently has no stable place of her own to live and is going between living at her mom's and house sitting, and can't have an aggressive cat with her (nevermind that these aren't the best living conditions for a cat anyways). But, since I knew this cat fairly well before and have an apartment that won't be changing for a while and have no other pets I offered to take her instead.
Now, it sounds to me that part of the problem might be that my friend was expecting her cat to recognize her and be okay with her suddenly coming in and taking her after 7 months, so it may not be as bad as she was thinking. The people she left the cat with did say she would come out and let them pet her sometimes, at least, so I'm hopeful. That said I am worried that she might in fact be aggressive, and obviously bringing her here is going to be stressful: it's a 7 hour car ride she'll be making this evening. I have owned cats before, but I've never taken in a cat that was already aggressive. I do know that when she first gets here I need to give her plenty of space and time to adjust; for now I'm planning to set her up with litter and food and water in the corner beside the sofa and just open her carrier there and let her take her time.
Oh boy, sorry, that got really long. I'm just wondering if you guys could offer advice tips for me to make her more comfortable and hopefully eventually be okay with being picked up and petted again. How long should I leave her alone? What can I do to make her more comfortable? How hard should I push interaction, if at all? I do have leather work gloves if I need to be pushy (might need them to get her collar off of her anyways). I'm going to be looking around the internet for other tips today. Thanks for reading.
I have sort of unique situation that I need some advice about. But first, some background:A very good friend of mine found a stray young cat about 4 years ago and took her in as her pet. Jazira was never the most friendly and cuddly of kitties, but did learn to be around people and could tolerate being picked up and held with little incident, and would sometimes sit on laps and want to be petted. I knew the cat fairly well as I used to hang out at my friend's a lot during college.
Last year a my friend went to Europe for about 7 months. During that time she left her kitty with another friend of ours. She returned to the US just a week ago and was finally able to go pick up her kitty last night, after which she called me practically in tears and told me that her cat had become much more aggressive and ripped up her hand when she tried to get her into the carrier. She attributes this to the fact that, she believes, the people where the cat was staying had minimal interaction with the cat. She definitely can't keep the cat herself in this condition as she currently has no stable place of her own to live and is going between living at her mom's and house sitting, and can't have an aggressive cat with her (nevermind that these aren't the best living conditions for a cat anyways). But, since I knew this cat fairly well before and have an apartment that won't be changing for a while and have no other pets I offered to take her instead.
Now, it sounds to me that part of the problem might be that my friend was expecting her cat to recognize her and be okay with her suddenly coming in and taking her after 7 months, so it may not be as bad as she was thinking. The people she left the cat with did say she would come out and let them pet her sometimes, at least, so I'm hopeful. That said I am worried that she might in fact be aggressive, and obviously bringing her here is going to be stressful: it's a 7 hour car ride she'll be making this evening. I have owned cats before, but I've never taken in a cat that was already aggressive. I do know that when she first gets here I need to give her plenty of space and time to adjust; for now I'm planning to set her up with litter and food and water in the corner beside the sofa and just open her carrier there and let her take her time.
Oh boy, sorry, that got really long. I'm just wondering if you guys could offer advice tips for me to make her more comfortable and hopefully eventually be okay with being picked up and petted again. How long should I leave her alone? What can I do to make her more comfortable? How hard should I push interaction, if at all? I do have leather work gloves if I need to be pushy (might need them to get her collar off of her anyways). I'm going to be looking around the internet for other tips today. Thanks for reading.












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