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You've been amending dictionaries now?Originally Posted by otto
in my definition of selfish
Yes, cats and all animals are selfish - by the proper definition of the word. That's just what an animal is. Humans are as well since altruism is very much a made up concept that does not exist. People just like to believe otherwise because it makes them feel better (which is in turn selfish, too).
To the OP: if the person believes that cats are coldly indifferent animals it's simply their lack of experience with them. You probably wouldn't believe all the misconceptions that at least half of the people posting in this very thread would have about snakes - of course it's more accepted to believe BS about them.
If the person can't connect to animals very well, so be it. Everyone is different and some people simply do not have it in them to make those connections, or they may have to mature further before they appreciate what having animals in their life means. You can't force it on someone. So for for your sanity's sake its often easier to let the subject be.