WRONG FORUM!! I thought I clicked The Cat Lounge! Sorry! Preggo brain!
We got our ultrasound yesterday, no doubt about it, he's a boy!!
My MIL made me cry though, stupid hormones. She's the sweetest woman ever, and would never hurt my feelings on purpose. But she had two boys, and her oldest just had a boy. So when we told her it was a boy she called and was on speakerphone and she said "WHY are you punishing me!?" I said "Having a grandson isn't a punishment!" and then I realized I was gonna cry so I stopped talking.
It was a joke, a bad joke. But the thing is, I know there was a little truth to it. The thought that anyone feels disappointment at his existence just breaks my heart a little. Especially his grandma. But, she doesn't normally do insensitive things like that, she's a sensitive person, so she's careful. I'm not mad at her, but I did tell her later that she hurt my feelings.
Anyway, Jon and I are THRILLED! We would have been either way. We don't have any names picked out yet. It's just so crazy to think that there really is a little human living in me. Here's some of the ultrasound photos.
We got our ultrasound yesterday, no doubt about it, he's a boy!!
My MIL made me cry though, stupid hormones. She's the sweetest woman ever, and would never hurt my feelings on purpose. But she had two boys, and her oldest just had a boy. So when we told her it was a boy she called and was on speakerphone and she said "WHY are you punishing me!?" I said "Having a grandson isn't a punishment!" and then I realized I was gonna cry so I stopped talking.
It was a joke, a bad joke. But the thing is, I know there was a little truth to it. The thought that anyone feels disappointment at his existence just breaks my heart a little. Especially his grandma. But, she doesn't normally do insensitive things like that, she's a sensitive person, so she's careful. I'm not mad at her, but I did tell her later that she hurt my feelings.
Anyway, Jon and I are THRILLED! We would have been either way. We don't have any names picked out yet. It's just so crazy to think that there really is a little human living in me. Here's some of the ultrasound photos.