Fluffy's Kittens

Hi All! Those of you watching my posts about Fluffy: Since she had the kittens she has calmed down a LOT! she will come near us but we stil cant touch her. But she doesnt run off like she used to. anyway, she keeps hiding the kittens. I am disabled and unable to bend, crouch, kneel or anything like that so I can't find them. Hubby can but he refuses to mess with them he is afraid Fluffy will get upset. My neighbor said we need to start playing with them now and start handling them so they wont end up feryl like Fluffy. Heck, I dont know what to do. Any suggestions???

Is there any way you could isolate her to a room without places she could hide them? What I use as a nest is a big transportation cage, but I have the side screws taken out so that I can take the top of the nest off when I need to, but it's still private for her.