Hello!
I am writing here desperately needing help. I have been an owner of cats all my life. I rescue cats in trouble, from the streets, from bad people, i foster them until they find new homes. My own cats are 2 - Koko and Suzi, they are siblings which i found 7 years ago abandoned in the garbage. Since then i have been taking care of them. They went through all of my rescues and never had any problems with the newcomers. First they ignore the new cat and after time they become friends - classic scenario. Until Sissi came along. When i rescued Sissi i immediately knew she will be my third cat. I was fascinated by her but it took me a long time to admit that i want to keep her for me. So, the problem is between Sissi and my other female cat. Let me say some more details beforehand
Sissi came to me from one of these horrible places where insane people confine numerous cats out of misunderstood mercy. Sissi was living among 23 cats and 9 dogs in a two bedroom appartment. Stench and dirt and diseases surrounded everything. She had behaviour problems even then. She used to bite people, did not want to be touched and was very afraid of everyhting. These things are more or less valid now, as well. She does not like to be touched or caressed. I am okay with that. She comes to me, seeks attention, i see she loves me in her unique manner. The big issue is the aggression she shows towards my other female cat. It is not even aggression, it is more like harassment. Here i must say that from the moment i brought her home, she was aggressive towards ALL cats. I started introducing slowly other cats to her using a glass door. She used to make her nose bleed just because she banged the door with her head in the strive to get to the other cat. Then i used leash and started entering the room with her. Nothing helped. She rushed after both of them like a wild animal.
Then i had to move in a new place. I saw a good opportunity in that because the new place would be no one`s territory. I let the three of them in the new appartment without any leashes or doors and Sisi was not so aggressive any more. So i lived in a relative peace for two years. Not without conflicts but not like before. Now she became again intolerable. The most interesting part is that Sissi is not aggessive towards male cats, only towards my other female. And as a result Suzi (my older cat) is experiencing a lot of stress. She cannot go to the cat toilet because Sissi attacks her immediately. She started peeing on my kitchen towel. She lives now only at the kitchen broad. The moment she is down, she is attacked. Sissi does nothing else but keeping track of where Suzi is located. I do not know what to do anymore.
I must say also that at the moment there are two rescue male cats at home, too. Sissi shows no aggression towards them.
Please, if anybody has any suggestions, i will be very grateful!
I am also searching for a cat behaviour specialist or cat whisperer or some organisation.
I tried everything - scoldinh her, punishing her, ignoring her, loving her more - nothing helps.
I cannot watch my good girl suffering like that.
Please, any advice will be helpful.
Thank you!
I am writing here desperately needing help. I have been an owner of cats all my life. I rescue cats in trouble, from the streets, from bad people, i foster them until they find new homes. My own cats are 2 - Koko and Suzi, they are siblings which i found 7 years ago abandoned in the garbage. Since then i have been taking care of them. They went through all of my rescues and never had any problems with the newcomers. First they ignore the new cat and after time they become friends - classic scenario. Until Sissi came along. When i rescued Sissi i immediately knew she will be my third cat. I was fascinated by her but it took me a long time to admit that i want to keep her for me. So, the problem is between Sissi and my other female cat. Let me say some more details beforehand
Sissi came to me from one of these horrible places where insane people confine numerous cats out of misunderstood mercy. Sissi was living among 23 cats and 9 dogs in a two bedroom appartment. Stench and dirt and diseases surrounded everything. She had behaviour problems even then. She used to bite people, did not want to be touched and was very afraid of everyhting. These things are more or less valid now, as well. She does not like to be touched or caressed. I am okay with that. She comes to me, seeks attention, i see she loves me in her unique manner. The big issue is the aggression she shows towards my other female cat. It is not even aggression, it is more like harassment. Here i must say that from the moment i brought her home, she was aggressive towards ALL cats. I started introducing slowly other cats to her using a glass door. She used to make her nose bleed just because she banged the door with her head in the strive to get to the other cat. Then i used leash and started entering the room with her. Nothing helped. She rushed after both of them like a wild animal.
Then i had to move in a new place. I saw a good opportunity in that because the new place would be no one`s territory. I let the three of them in the new appartment without any leashes or doors and Sisi was not so aggressive any more. So i lived in a relative peace for two years. Not without conflicts but not like before. Now she became again intolerable. The most interesting part is that Sissi is not aggessive towards male cats, only towards my other female. And as a result Suzi (my older cat) is experiencing a lot of stress. She cannot go to the cat toilet because Sissi attacks her immediately. She started peeing on my kitchen towel. She lives now only at the kitchen broad. The moment she is down, she is attacked. Sissi does nothing else but keeping track of where Suzi is located. I do not know what to do anymore.
I must say also that at the moment there are two rescue male cats at home, too. Sissi shows no aggression towards them.
Please, if anybody has any suggestions, i will be very grateful!
I am also searching for a cat behaviour specialist or cat whisperer or some organisation.
I tried everything - scoldinh her, punishing her, ignoring her, loving her more - nothing helps.
I cannot watch my good girl suffering like that.
Please, any advice will be helpful.
Thank you!











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