I am going for gallbladder surgery tomorrow and barring any complications, I should be back home tomorrow night. But if any issues, I would have to be admitted to hospital and be there for a few days. As my sister is away, it's my Mom would care for the cats in my absence. She is so NOT an animal-lover and it's never been more evident. I am so angry with her and I will be a nervous wreck if I have to stay in hospital.
She came over last night and I wanted to show her the routine; how much I feed, how often, where I keep the food, where the litterboxes are, always ensure doors closed immediately, don't keep toilet lid up, etc etc.
When I was opening up their canned food and putting it on the plate, I showed her how I do that, add a little water, put it in the microwave for a few seconds. She was so grossed out by the canned food that she backed off, remarked how disgusting it was. OMG, what a wuss.
When I showed her how I scoop the litterboxes (have to show her everything as she knows nothing; I have 5 indoor cats, by the way), she was also grossed out; said this was something my Dad would have to do, it was too gross for her (my litterboxes were all already scooped at the time, area neat and tidy, no odor, she's just not an animal person).
She wasn't careful and Hobee got into the garage (I'd told her to NEVER leave doors open, watch for cats).
I told her not to leave toilet lid up, she did.
I have 9 million freaking notes all over this house and I don't even know if she'll care enough to read them all.
I asked her if I should give her the # to my Vet clinic and tell her where the carrier is, just in case anyone needed to go to the Vet. She made it clear, so did my Dad, that they would not be taking any of them to the Vet. Niiiiiiice.
I am so upset. There is no other alternative. She didn't even show any interest in learning anything. all she did was complain that she had cat hair on her black socks.
I am so terrified she'll accidentally lock one in a closet (I've even left a note for that; don't open any closets).
Have left a note telling her NOT to lower blinds because i don't want to have to worry that someone will strangle themselves with blind cord.
She has no common sense or instinct about animals (hell, she didn't have it as a mother growing up, what should I expect with an animal?).
Please pray that my surgery will go well and that I won't have to stay in the hospital.
THanks
Lisa
She came over last night and I wanted to show her the routine; how much I feed, how often, where I keep the food, where the litterboxes are, always ensure doors closed immediately, don't keep toilet lid up, etc etc.
When I was opening up their canned food and putting it on the plate, I showed her how I do that, add a little water, put it in the microwave for a few seconds. She was so grossed out by the canned food that she backed off, remarked how disgusting it was. OMG, what a wuss.
When I showed her how I scoop the litterboxes (have to show her everything as she knows nothing; I have 5 indoor cats, by the way), she was also grossed out; said this was something my Dad would have to do, it was too gross for her (my litterboxes were all already scooped at the time, area neat and tidy, no odor, she's just not an animal person).
She wasn't careful and Hobee got into the garage (I'd told her to NEVER leave doors open, watch for cats).
I told her not to leave toilet lid up, she did.
I have 9 million freaking notes all over this house and I don't even know if she'll care enough to read them all.
I asked her if I should give her the # to my Vet clinic and tell her where the carrier is, just in case anyone needed to go to the Vet. She made it clear, so did my Dad, that they would not be taking any of them to the Vet. Niiiiiiice.
I am so upset. There is no other alternative. She didn't even show any interest in learning anything. all she did was complain that she had cat hair on her black socks.
I am so terrified she'll accidentally lock one in a closet (I've even left a note for that; don't open any closets).
Have left a note telling her NOT to lower blinds because i don't want to have to worry that someone will strangle themselves with blind cord.
She has no common sense or instinct about animals (hell, she didn't have it as a mother growing up, what should I expect with an animal?).
Please pray that my surgery will go well and that I won't have to stay in the hospital.
THanks
Lisa