Greetings from Brisbane, Australia!
We adopted Bella, now 8 months old, from a shelter about 2 months ago. Part of our attraction to her was that she was very relaxed and snuggly, and we were hoping for a "cuddle kitty". For the first month, Bella was very smoochy and couldn't get enough lap time. The last few weeks, though, she is no longer keen to be stroked or cuddled. It's been an almost overnight change. She's occasionally affectionate to my husband, but with me (her main feeder, waterer, cleaner of the litter tray and outside escort)she squirms or immediately jumps off my lap. We love Bella very much and are wondering if there is anything we could be doing, or if it's just a case of Bella growing up?
Any thoughts or advice are greatly appreciated.
We adopted Bella, now 8 months old, from a shelter about 2 months ago. Part of our attraction to her was that she was very relaxed and snuggly, and we were hoping for a "cuddle kitty". For the first month, Bella was very smoochy and couldn't get enough lap time. The last few weeks, though, she is no longer keen to be stroked or cuddled. It's been an almost overnight change. She's occasionally affectionate to my husband, but with me (her main feeder, waterer, cleaner of the litter tray and outside escort)she squirms or immediately jumps off my lap. We love Bella very much and are wondering if there is anything we could be doing, or if it's just a case of Bella growing up?
Any thoughts or advice are greatly appreciated.