Update

I haven't been on much lately because things have just been crazy here, but since I posted a few weeks ago about being pregnant I figured I'd update everyone. It was confirmed on Friday via blood tests that I miscarried last week. Although, I kinda knew Wednesday morning that something was wrong. It's funny how fast life changes. Two weeks ago I was freaking because I was, now I'm devastated because I'm not anymore. We didn't even realize we wanted a baby until this happened and we got used to the idea....

On the bright side, at least now we know we CAN get pregnant so we're going to keep trying at least through the summer. If it happens, wonderful! If not then it wasn't meant to be.

Just wanted to let everyone know and to thank everyone for all the great advice and support.

I am sorry to hear this hun. What a crazy emotional roller coaster you must have been on lately. Sending vibes your way.

I am so sorry My sister has been through 3 miscarriages and is now almost 5 months pregnant with their first child so it CAN happen for you!

Sorry to hear this bitter-sweet news. It always happens that we don't want something till we know we can't have it. Whatever happens this summer preggers or not, hope you will be happy.

Oh I am so sorry to hear this

Im so sorry that had to happen to you. I know how hard it is my BFs step sil is trying to get pregnant (over 2 yrs) and has recently had a miscarriage after her first time actually having a confirmed pregnancy. Im sending a ton of vibes your way for everything to work out in your favor!!! Bestest wishes to you!!!

Wow that is quite the roller coaster you've been on these past few weeks!

Very sorry to hear the news, and I wish you all the best for the future, wherever it may take you.

I'm so sorry, sweetie.

for success! ...and have fun trying.

I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage, and hope you're dealing with it okay. It's not easy.

Im so so sorry Hope. ~hugs~

Ah hun, I am so sorry, my pregnancy before my oldest child ended in miscarriage, I now have 3 children, so try not to worry too much. Huge hugs, take care of yourself. xx

Lots of virtual hugs! Unfortunately miscarriage in the first trimester is common, quite a few of my friends have gone through this...but knowing that is common doesn't make it any less painful and surely doesn't lessen your grief
I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage, but the good news is that you know you can get pregnant! Fingers crossed that this happens for you again soon

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you'll be pregnant again soon and holding your sweet baby before you know it. And I know it doesn't help much to hear it; but I also know several people who had early miscarriages and now have several children. *hugs*

Oh, and when you do get preggy again, my experience was that I didn't stop worrying about loosing my baby till she was here! And now there's all new kinds of worries.

from one West Virginian to another....I am sending you TONS of hugs threw the net hon.

Thank you everyone. It was heartbreaking, but we're dealing with it ok now. Honestly, this wasn't the best time financially and maybe God realized that (yeah, we're trying to rationalize it). But we both believe things happen for a reason even if we don't understand it right now. We are going to keep trying, so keep your fingers crossed!

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Thank you everyone. It was heartbreaking, but we're dealing with it ok now. Honestly, this wasn't the best time financially and maybe God realized that (yeah, we're trying to rationalize it). But we both believe things happen for a reason even if we don't understand it right now. We are going to keep trying, so keep your fingers crossed!

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I was devistated when I lost my sons twin.And then I sat down and thought/prayed about it.My thoughts were that God knew that I couldn't care for 3 kids on my own,and that for some reason he needed an extra Angel in Heaven...and used my body to carry it until he wanted it home with him.
I'm not saying the pain ever goes away 100%, but as time goes by,it does get easier.
HUGS hon!!

Wow Hope, you certainly have been going through a lot these last weeks..... many virtual hugs

You have such an amazing outlook on life, its very admirable Like you said, if it happens or not, thats what is meant to be. I can't agree more.