It has been a rough day for me...

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When I woke up this morning the sun was shining and it was so pretty. It had rained all night and for that few minutes the sun was out. I sprained my ankle on our front step. (I have paper ankle's I swear) LOL.

I went out with my girls tonight that I hadn't seen in a long time (yay for school, not) and I pulled a muscle in my back all the way up to my neck.


To top it all off, I walk in around 12 a.m and my mom is home (she was supposed to work) and she's asleep I start wiggling her around to see what the deal is.

This was the greatest... My grandmother who lives with me has breast cancer, in both breasts. I melted down into my shoes, I hate cancer with a PASSION!! My best friends mom has it, she's in remission thank goodness, but my grandmothers was so fast and so sudden I don;t know how to take it.. at all. I have no idea how to cope. I went to my room after I signed to my gramma a little while so she'd know I knew (she is deaf and blind in one eye)
It breaks my heart so bad because she is the sweetest (most harded) person I know.. and it tears me to pieces to even think about it...



Any uplifiting advice or something would be great...

Otherwise I just want prayers and lots of them!

Thank you all!
 

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O you have had quite a time.

I hope things get better for all of you. Just take one day at a time.

God bless.
 

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Wow hun, sounds like you have luck very similar to my own.
Get some rest to heal yourself and yes, take one day at a time, know that what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger and be there the best you can for your Grandmother. Everything happens for a reason, even if we don't always understand it.
 

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I am so sorry hun, what an awful day. I will send you for your grandma, she sounds like a lovely lady. xx
 
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Thanks everybody.

We recieved even more terrible news this morning. One of my moms good friends was fatally hurt in a car accident!

I shall breathe and take it one day at a time.. What else can we do!?

Thank you for your kind words/thoughts/prayers!

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your one day sounds like my last few weeks

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to you and your family

the best way to face it is as people have said one day at a time

 
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I feel for anyone who ever has to go through this.

Hugs and Kisses from me and my family!

What doesn't kill us will only make us stonger, you are so right!!
 

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I'm so sorry that you and those around you are going through such a rough time. I will keep everyone in my prayers.
 

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I am so sorry, and sending all the I can. My dad had cancer, so I've been through it. If you want to talk, you can PM me anytime.
 

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I know living with having cancer or living with someone who does is very heartbreaking. I am sending good vibes your way and lots of get well wishes to your grandmother.
 
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