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post #31 of 40
JoshuaD - I agree with the posters who said check him for a UTI.(urinary tract infection.) If you have ever had one you know it creates both urgency and pain. Women actually get them more than men.

As far as wanting out at night, don't ever get a dog!

Good suggestions - getting a cat door - if you rent, clear that with the landlord.
Training him to use a litter pan. Dr. Elsey's Cat Attract litter works wonders for that.
post #32 of 40
Thread Starter 
I'm still around and I'm still reading. I really appreciate the help from everyone who has made suggestions, particularly those who brought up urinary tract infection. I'm going to call over to some vets today and try to get a feel for how they work. If I get the sense that they're sincerely concerned with helping my cat I'll go to them. If not, I'll call the next vet until I find one who is.

As to the one who said I must be a "rich kid". If I was a rich kid I wouldn't have to be concerned about how much I spent to fix him, and I'd spend whatever without doing any research online first. Unfortunately, I am far from a "rich kid" and therefore I have to be more careful with my money.

And for the baby analogies: This is is why the tone of my first post was what it was (in conjunction with the fact that I had gotten no sleep and was at my wits end). We simply disagree on the value of the animals life. I love my cats and I will do a whole lot to help them. They rank nowhere near the value of a child to me. I don't think a thousand cats are worth the life of a human child to me. For my child I would spend every penny I own and sell whatever I had if I thought it was necessary. For a cat I'm willing to go significantly less far.

I understand there are a lot of people here who disagree with me on this, and I don't intend to criticize your point of view. I do ask that you don't demand I share it. It's a waste of my time and yours and it won't help Buddha at all.
post #33 of 40
If you think a cat's life isn't anywhere near the worth of a child's life you should not have cats - period. Or any other pet for that matter.

Cats don't suck up every resource you have and then scream about how much they hate you.

Cats don't build weapons of mass destruction.

Cats don't oppress others on the basis of race/gender/sexual orientation/whatever.

Cats don't invent idiotic religions and kill in the name of said religions.

In fact, the more I'm exposed to humans the more I respect my cats.
post #34 of 40
I'm glad you're still around and still reading. There are a lot of people here who can give you good advice on how to care for Buddha. BUT... you will also find that most of us here believe that when YOU choose to adopt/take in an animal, you are making a pledge to care for that animal as best you can, for the duration of your animal's life. You wouldn't give your human child away if s/he wouldn't stop crying all night.

I appreciate your sentiment of agreeing to disagree, but in all honesty, you remind me of people who declaw their cats because they scratch on the furniture, or who give their cats to a shelter because they shed too much. I sincerely hope that is not the case.

Just like a human baby, our cats depend on us for food, water, shelter, love, and medical attention.
post #35 of 40
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Originally Posted by JoshuaD View Post


I'm really surprised at the responses that say you think he'd be better off at a shelter. Despite the fact that he drives me absolutely mad at night, I have a lot of affection for him and he has a huge amount of affection for me. He and his brother also enjoy playing. I'm shocked that people would say he's better off at a shelter than spending 90% of his life outside with his family.


As to the kid analogy: Really? I understand liking animals, but to draw any sort of parallel between a cat and a human child is just strange. I won't go into the multitude of reasons why I would be willing to get up to take care of my baby child in the middle of the night but why I'm unwilling to do the same for an adult cat. It should be pretty obvious.
Re: Your first para:

I think you were ready to jump at people who suggested taking him to a shelter when you arrived.

Second para:

I feel for my cats more then any human alive. Sorry if that offends anybody. But my kitties are helpless and they depend on ME. You should rethink your decision as a cat caregiver if you aren't willing to go to the moon and back for them.
post #36 of 40
How you view your cats is purely up to you. You don't have to treat your cats like a child - if you give them the love, care and attention they need and want, then you're already significantly better than a lot of people in the world! The fact that you've come to a cat website to find help for Buddha shows that you really do care, and want to seek help, and that's the most important thing.

When you call different vets, ask what the consultation fee is like, say you'd like your kitty checked for a UTI, and to get an estimate on what those charges would be because you're on a limited budget. That will give you an idea on the attitude of the vet practise and their payment options, and an idea of what their consult vs. lab fees are. Some may have low consult fees but charge a LOT for testing. So finding out that in advance could be really useful for choosing a vet.

Good luck!

Oh and we love seeing pictures of people's kitties
post #37 of 40
Yes, I agree with everything that Sarah said. I hope I wasn't too offensive in my last post (I didn't mean to be), because the fact that you are seeking information on how to help Buddha IS a sign that you really care for him.

And I also second the suggestion for pictures!!!!
post #38 of 40
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Originally Posted by sarahp View Post
How you view your cats is purely up to you. You don't have to treat your cats like a child - if you give them the love, care and attention they need and want, then you're already significantly better than a lot of people in the world! The fact that you've come to a cat website to find help for Buddha shows that you really do care, and want to seek help, and that's the most important thing.

When you call different vets, ask what the consultation fee is like, say you'd like your kitty checked for a UTI, and to get an estimate on what those charges would be because you're on a limited budget. That will give you an idea on the attitude of the vet practise and their payment options, and an idea of what their consult vs. lab fees are. Some may have low consult fees but charge a LOT for testing. So finding out that in advance could be really useful for choosing a vet.

Good luck!

Oh and we love seeing pictures of people's kitties
Well said, Sarah!
post #39 of 40
Thread Starter 
So I went to the vet a week ago to get Buddha checked out. A urinary tract infection doesn't seem to be the culprit.

His derimitisis has subsided almost completely. This may be due to a change in the weather, the change in his diet, or the anti-biotics he has been being given. The dermitisis had subsided before I brought him to the vet.

The big concern is his right eye. The ulcer in it has been growing worse for the last month, and in the last 2 weeks it has gotten particularly bad.

Otherwise, Buddha's mood is almost exactly the same as it was before this eye problem developed. He is happy, friendly, playful and energetic. He does squint a little, but otherwise he isnt' paying much attention to the eye.

The vet prescribed Atropine and Gentamicin Sulfate Ophthalmic Solution along with an anti-biotic which is administered through the mouth.

The Atropine is supposed to be a topical pain reliever so the cat doesn't do additional damage to the eye by scratching. When it is administered Buddha's mouth begins to foam for about 20 minutes.

The GSO solution is a topical anti-biotic.

After a week of regular treatment with these drugs the cat's eye has continued to get worse. After doing some research online I have come across a number of pages that are suggesting FHV as a potential cause, and they suggest using L-Lysine as a treatment. I began by giving him ~300mg of L-Lysine today. I've been told 250mg-500mg is acceptable for a cat, so if I don't see any adverse reaction I will up his dose to 500mg daily.

Below are pictures of his eye. Beyond what I've been doing, if anyone has any further suggestions I would appreciate it. I am growing concerned that if this goes unchecked it will soon cost him his eye and potentially his eyesight.

At this point I have almost no faith in the veteranarians. I have gone to two and neither have offered me any advice that has worked. They both offered the cookie-cutter solution despite the fact that there were large indications that this is not a typical problem. Neither attempted to diagnose Buddha by looking for maladies that caused both eye ulcers and dermitisis. When I pursued the issue further with the second vet he said he didn't want to "chase zebras". $350 later and I'm out of money and out of patience for the vets. I have a friend who's a vet-tech who can likely get any medicine that might be needed, and if anyone has any suggestions that seem likely that a vet would be able to test further I'd be willing to go back to one, but I'm not going back unless I have a very pointed question. They have shown no competence at diagnosing this on their own.





I'm actually moderately hopeful about the L-Lysine. I will keep everyone posted, but any information is greatly appreciated.
post #40 of 40
Aww, poor kitty.

One thing I always do and suggest if a cat has any kind of eye issue that's not improving after treatment suggested by a regular vet is to take kitty to a Vet Ophthalmologist (eye doctor). They specialize and are experts in animal eye issues, such as what your kitty is dealing with. To find a Vet eye doc local to you, just go to Google and type in something like this "Veterinary ophthalmologist __________" (the blank would be the town or city you live in, or the nearest large city).
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