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Originally Posted by mokeman3 
Ruby, - this is a very good post, and well written, and very informative, - thank you for this. It helps.
Read my recent thread above about getting my beloved Mokie put down this morning at 11:30AM. Needless to say that I am totally beside myself this evening, and about to spend my first night in bed without him sucking on my ear lobe and licking my face as I fall asleep.
The vet, which I think is much like you described here as not being very assertive in it all, told me that she suspected intestional lymphoma, and she could do another blood test, and X-rays, and all sorts of other stuff, but she suggested that putting him down at his age was her professional opinion. It may not be fair for me to judge her, as she I'm sure was thinking and speaking a lot more rational than I was thinking, so I give her that benefit of the doubt.
MM3
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Well with all due respect to you, because you were just doing what you were advised was the best thing for your cat, I think your Vet is a horse's arse. To just "assume" the worst case, that it was lymphoma -- without any xrays or ultrasound to check for a mass inside........and no recent bloodwork done (you'd mentioned that bloodwork was done a YEAR ago) to rule out of other very common (in older cats) and TREATable things like hyperthyroidism....CONSIDERING your cat was Hyperthyroid 10 yrs ago though treated then w/ radioactive iodine. This is significant history and it doesn't matter that labwork done in July, when cat having diarrhea was "normal" (thyroid), it should have RECENTLY be repeated, in my opinion -- and why on earth would a Vet treat Diarrhea with Amoxicillin? That's the #1 antibiotic that will CAUSE diarrhea!!!!...............I would be FURIOUS at such a Vet for not completely ruling out other common/treatable conditions before concluding based on Nothing, that it was something terminal like lymphoma. Shame shame shame. I hope you reconsider returning to such a Vet. Vets are not God and we should not put them on a pedestal. They are human and they can be wrong, and some are just plain lazy, passive and stoopid, and far too quick to jump to conclusions.
Years ago I had a 3 yr old male neutered cat, the love of my life, who had FLUTD. He had crystals and would block up frequently. My Vet, I thought was a good man and someone I trusted. Back then I didn't have internet access and therefore had no access to info on FLUTD and how to deal with crystals, etc. I was rather naive. The 3rd time Mouse blocked up and I rushed him in to be catheterized/unblocked, this Vet I had put a lot of trust and money into, told me that it was hopeless, I should put him down because it was unfair to him for him to keep blocking up. I was not given any teaching about the importance of canned food vs dry. He tried to peddle the appropriate Hill's Rx food for him, which he wouldn't eat (canned) and offered no other alternative food. He would have been better off eating any kind of canned food (with a little water added) but I didn't know any better. He told me about the surgery that can be done for male cats who frequently block (Perineal Urethrostomy, I believe it's called) but really was very negative about its success rate - emphasizing that it would cost me $1000 for the surgery with only a very little chance of success. total BS. So that Sunday afternoon he put me on the spot and basically told me that he couldn't keep unblocking him, it was unfair to him, and if I loved him I needed to put him down. This was afterhours on a Sunday, he came in to see Mouse. There was nobody there but us. He asked me to help hold Mouse while he put in the IV catheter so that he could euthanize him. I was completely distraught and traumatized, being asked to hold down my cat while the Vet put him down (and he was fighting) was deplorable. It still haunts me to this day and I learned a valuable lesson then.............no Vet knows everything and one should ALWAYS get a second opinion when one is given the only alternative of euthanization.
You obviously respect your Vet but you have to seriously ask yourself why your Vet didn't rule out other likely, treatable possibilities before declaring your cat terminal due to Lymphoma. Some simple bloodwork and a urinalysis would have been all that's needed to check for diabetes, kidney disease and hyperthyroidism; all things that cause the symptoms your cat had. A good Vet would KNOW that bloodwork done "last year" is no longer applicable or accurate. I say your Vet sucks and I'm sorry for your loss.