I hope someone will read this through (even though it's long).
I am planning on going to work tomorrow and handing in my letter of resignation. I'd like to say that this came out of the blue, but it's something that has been in the back of my mind for some time now. I am not happy that I'll be leaving a job without first having another lined up, but I don't feel I have an option and I just need to trust that everything will work out in the end.
I started working at my present job last summer. I took the job because I needed something, but it wasn't what I necessarily wanted at the time. However, I grew to really enjoy it. For those of you who do not know, I work at PetSmart as a pet care associate. While much of the job is mundane, I enjoy working with the animals. But, as time went on, some issues started to arise. For one, I became ill in November and wound up having an emergency appendectomy. Because of my surgery, I needed 2 weeks off to recover. I kept my boss up to date with what was going on and provided a doctor's note and all was well. I was quickly given more hours and was consistently being told that I was a good, hard worker. But, some things never added up. I was never given a chance to buy into the health insurance plan and I never got my review. But, I looked past those things because I truly did like my job.
Then came the start of the year and I began getting some crazy hours. We're talking multiple 10+ hour days in a row and hours such as 1:00pm-11:00pm one night and 6:00am-3:30pm the very next morning. It was killing me. I had told my boss, before I even started, that I had some health issues and was informed that they'd work with me as long as I was honest and provided the appropriate documentation for when I was out of work. But, when I mentioned the hours being too much, I was told that they weren't going to make special arrangements just for me. So, it was no wonder when I got sick with pneumonia in January. Again, I was out 2 weeks. And, unfortunately, just a couple of weeks after returning to work after that hiatus, I partially ruptured my achille's tendon. I was extremely nervous about calling in to my job, but after a very long discussion, I was told not to worry.
Fast forward to this week. I called, as requested, to let them know that I'd be returning to work as planned on March 2nd. But, I was given a hard time with getting my schedule for the week. The details aren't important, but suffice it to say that it was uncomfortable. Well, things were awkward enough that, with everything else that had happened in the past, I made the decision to leave. The decision may seem rash, but there are a lot of things that went down which led me to that decision. I'm only on the schedule this week tomorrow and on Saturday and I am planning on speaking with my boss and handing in my resignation letter tomorrow. But, I'm nervous.
I have left jobs before. But, for whatever reason, since being sick earlier this year, I have had an increase in my anxiety. When I think about talking to my boss tomorrow, I start shaking and going into a full-blown panic attack. My fears range from just feeling uncomfortable and awkward to believing that they'll call the police on me and then have all my animals taken from me. Yes, I know that is ridiculous, but as a person with OCD, that is one of my most severe fears. It has no basis in reality, but I rationalize it in order to have it make sense in my own mind. My OCD is usually under control, but being sick has set me back some and I'm really feeling it. This, too, is part of the reason I am choosing to leave work.
I'm just unsure about how best to proceed. What do I say? Do I give 2 weeks (as I normally would)? Or, do I just thank them and move on? I suppose I just need a little reassurance. I feel guilty and shameful and...well, you get the point.
It will be okay, right? Have any of you ever resigned from a job? How did you handle it? And, anyone with anxiety? I could just use some overall support right now.
I am planning on going to work tomorrow and handing in my letter of resignation. I'd like to say that this came out of the blue, but it's something that has been in the back of my mind for some time now. I am not happy that I'll be leaving a job without first having another lined up, but I don't feel I have an option and I just need to trust that everything will work out in the end.
I started working at my present job last summer. I took the job because I needed something, but it wasn't what I necessarily wanted at the time. However, I grew to really enjoy it. For those of you who do not know, I work at PetSmart as a pet care associate. While much of the job is mundane, I enjoy working with the animals. But, as time went on, some issues started to arise. For one, I became ill in November and wound up having an emergency appendectomy. Because of my surgery, I needed 2 weeks off to recover. I kept my boss up to date with what was going on and provided a doctor's note and all was well. I was quickly given more hours and was consistently being told that I was a good, hard worker. But, some things never added up. I was never given a chance to buy into the health insurance plan and I never got my review. But, I looked past those things because I truly did like my job.
Then came the start of the year and I began getting some crazy hours. We're talking multiple 10+ hour days in a row and hours such as 1:00pm-11:00pm one night and 6:00am-3:30pm the very next morning. It was killing me. I had told my boss, before I even started, that I had some health issues and was informed that they'd work with me as long as I was honest and provided the appropriate documentation for when I was out of work. But, when I mentioned the hours being too much, I was told that they weren't going to make special arrangements just for me. So, it was no wonder when I got sick with pneumonia in January. Again, I was out 2 weeks. And, unfortunately, just a couple of weeks after returning to work after that hiatus, I partially ruptured my achille's tendon. I was extremely nervous about calling in to my job, but after a very long discussion, I was told not to worry.
Fast forward to this week. I called, as requested, to let them know that I'd be returning to work as planned on March 2nd. But, I was given a hard time with getting my schedule for the week. The details aren't important, but suffice it to say that it was uncomfortable. Well, things were awkward enough that, with everything else that had happened in the past, I made the decision to leave. The decision may seem rash, but there are a lot of things that went down which led me to that decision. I'm only on the schedule this week tomorrow and on Saturday and I am planning on speaking with my boss and handing in my resignation letter tomorrow. But, I'm nervous.
I have left jobs before. But, for whatever reason, since being sick earlier this year, I have had an increase in my anxiety. When I think about talking to my boss tomorrow, I start shaking and going into a full-blown panic attack. My fears range from just feeling uncomfortable and awkward to believing that they'll call the police on me and then have all my animals taken from me. Yes, I know that is ridiculous, but as a person with OCD, that is one of my most severe fears. It has no basis in reality, but I rationalize it in order to have it make sense in my own mind. My OCD is usually under control, but being sick has set me back some and I'm really feeling it. This, too, is part of the reason I am choosing to leave work.
I'm just unsure about how best to proceed. What do I say? Do I give 2 weeks (as I normally would)? Or, do I just thank them and move on? I suppose I just need a little reassurance. I feel guilty and shameful and...well, you get the point.
It will be okay, right? Have any of you ever resigned from a job? How did you handle it? And, anyone with anxiety? I could just use some overall support right now.