Wow, that sounds so much like my ex boyfriend it's scary.Originally Posted by libby74
Yes. They may not seem huge to anyone else, but this is my daughter I'm talking about.
My DD wasn't the first (or the second) girl he's given a promise ring. His last gf told my DD to be careful of him, that he is clingy and controlling. A member of his family told my DH that the guy had stalked that gf---until he started dating our daughter. She has caught him in lies, but always makes an excuse for him. To his credit, he's had a full time job for 2 years, but doesn't have a penny in the bank. He's had several accidents in the past year or so that he's begged the other people not to report. His parents pay them off and he reimburses them (supposedly). He is the ultimate "Mommy's Boy", even DD admits that. His excuse for drinking to excess is this: his best friend was killed in a drunk driving accident (of course). A year later to the day, he was arrested at an underage drinking party. He told DD he was "celebrating his friend's death". Of course, he'd already been arrested on alcohol charges before that.
The alcohol and probable drug abuse are just the tip of the iceburg. He is immature and irresposible but, as his Mom wrote about him on facebook, "If I had 2 sons he'd still be my favorite."Did I mention his family is a little odd and complete enablers?