Am I being unreasonable?
This is really driving me crazy!
Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve been with my boyfriend for 11 months. We live in the same village, not together. He doesnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t drive.
Heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s a chef and heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s also in a band. The band have had a few local gigs and have one in London next month.
The band – www.myspace.com/supercasinostyle
A vacancy for my dream job came up, so I applied. The only thing is, the job is in Oxford, which is 60 miles from where I live now.
I asked my boyfriend if he would move to Oxford with me, and the only thing stopping him is the band. I can understand that he has his family, his friends, his job in the village and doesnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t want to leave. But he says itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s not those, itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s the band that would stop him. He wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t want to let his friends down.
Itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s all academic at the moment as I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t even know if Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve got an interview for the job. However I already passed up applying for this job a couple of years ago as I was married and my husband wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t move. I canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t not go for it this time.
So now Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m in the position where I have to choose – my boyfriend or my job
Am I being unreasonable asking my boyfriend to move? He couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t travel from Oxford to meet up with the band – he says that wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t work. He works weekends so he says he couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t visit me then.
Heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s showing he really wants to be with me – heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s asked me to move in with him!
I need an outsiders opinion please!
This is really driving me crazy!
Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve been with my boyfriend for 11 months. We live in the same village, not together. He doesnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t drive.
Heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s a chef and heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s also in a band. The band have had a few local gigs and have one in London next month.
The band – www.myspace.com/supercasinostyle
A vacancy for my dream job came up, so I applied. The only thing is, the job is in Oxford, which is 60 miles from where I live now.
I asked my boyfriend if he would move to Oxford with me, and the only thing stopping him is the band. I can understand that he has his family, his friends, his job in the village and doesnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t want to leave. But he says itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s not those, itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s the band that would stop him. He wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t want to let his friends down.
Itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s all academic at the moment as I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t even know if Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve got an interview for the job. However I already passed up applying for this job a couple of years ago as I was married and my husband wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t move. I canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t not go for it this time.
So now Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m in the position where I have to choose – my boyfriend or my job
Am I being unreasonable asking my boyfriend to move? He couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t travel from Oxford to meet up with the band – he says that wouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t work. He works weekends so he says he couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t visit me then.
Heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s showing he really wants to be with me – heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s asked me to move in with him!
I need an outsiders opinion please!