I was going to write this is the positive post, but as I continued writing I decided it warranted its own thread.
This all started because I wanted to post my positives, so here you go:
- I sit here one handed, loss of my dominant hand for the next few months. Stiches come out on Monday, then the real work begins.
- I have just successfully come through a medication issue on my own again, and it in itself has opened my eyes. This is not my first time, and I doubt it will be the last either.
- The support I've had thru above issue has been amazing. From existing friends, msgs on here, on FB, the support has been overwhelming. I didn't realise that I touched that many people, and am so thankful that what goes around comes around because each and every thought/prayer/vibe has helped me SUCCEED in this latest ordeal.
- Last night I slept.... 2 periods of over 3hrs. First time in 7 days. YES, you read that right. I have not slept longer than 20min intervels due to #1.
- My head is clear, my eyes are open, and just for that I am thankful.
I don't mean to sound bitter or anything like that....but anyone who can get sleep at night (more than 20mins at a time), has a bed to sleep in, a roof over their head, a person that cares about them
has A LOT to be thankful for.
A person that is healthy in most aspects, has A LOT to be thankful for.
A person that does NOT have to deal with chronic pain, has A LOT to be thankful for.
My point, not like many listen, is simple: OPEN YOUR EYES people. Look around you. I can bet that you have SOMETHING to be thankful for. A meal, a bed, a family member, a dollar in your pocket, the AIR in your lungs.
It took not a nice week for me to open my eyes. I can only HOPE that my post has inspired one person to look around, and in a day and age where there are a lot of struggles, find something to be thankful for.
Even if its just being able to read.
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My medication "issue", is that in order for me to have a semi normal life, I need the assistance of prescription pain medications, and have since I injured my back almost 5yrs ago.
Anyone who know even the littlest bit about narcotics, knows the struggles.
At one point in my life, way way prior to this injury, I led a few yrs of addictions.... yes plural. I beat those demons, and went on to lead a clean life.
Then I became injured, suffering chronic pain that at times is nothing worse that a strained muscle to excrutiating, horrible, unable to function pain. I take painkillers on an as needed basis.
I know myself well, and watch very very carefully for signs of physical dependence. For those that don't understand the difference between physical dependence or drug tolerance VS being an addict, that is a different post and I believe I've addressed it previously. There is a HUGE difference between taking pills to feel good vs taking pills because your quality of life is 0 without them. I will not get on that soapbox right now.
Anyways, with my recent surgery, my docs did NOT increase my pain meds.... so I had to take the ones I have on the clock, every 3-4hrs just to take the slightest of edges off. In a matter of 3-4 days, my body became dependent on those meds, and instead of me taking them as needed, I was taking them every 3-4hrs. because my body was telling me to.
As soon as I saw this, I went off of them. Cold turkey. Took my last dose Feb.13 at 7am. 4 days after surgery. I have spent this past week in withdrawal. Wed/Thurs were the hump days. Last night was the first night in a wk that I slept more than 20mins at a time.
( this by the way is #3 in a matter of 7-8mos. The first one was my docs fault when he cold turkied me off of one, put me on a lesser equivalent dosage of a stronger med....leading me into #1. #2 was just a month after that and now 6mos later. The two last ones were MY choice. I REFUSE to let my life be dictated by pills )
Today, my eyes are OPEN. Wide wide OPEN. I realised that I am not getting younger, that doing this is hard on my body and may eventually kill me, and that I do NOT want to keep having to do this. But these types of meds, will have a place in my life on a long term basis of that there is no question, unless I want to resign myself to being housebound, curled up in a ball of agony, unable to do the most basic of tasks.
I've realised that this med is NOT the med for me, and will be doing what I can to get that changed.
*end of medication issue*
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But most of all, my eyes have opened to EVERYTHING. To my darling husband, my 2 beautiful daughters, my life, my wishes, just everything.
I am THANKFUL to be alive. Yes my life is not one of sustance. I do not have the ability to work, to do "normal" wifely duties, to do "normal" mom stuff. BUT, I have life and in it I have love, friends, people near and far.
I don't want your sympathy, I don't need any justification/respect/suggestions/nada from you. I'm doing good....because my eyes are open, my head is clear, and for the first time in a while, ALL is well in my life.
What I want, my reason for writing this:
to hopefully get people to open their eyes to what is POSITIVE around them. When you feel down, take a look around, open your eyes and see the beauty that surrounds you.... Be thankful you have the ability to open your mouth and breath in some fresh air.
If I can make one person smile, one person say "yeah she's right", if one person opens their eyes to what we HAVE rather than don't have, then the hours I spent struggling to type this out, will not be a waste.
Be strong folks, be strong. Life is not a destination but a journey, and its YOUR choice how you decide to lead that.
And yes, lastly, I will use this one: If I can overcome all that I have in my mere 33yrs, then ANYONE can overcome their struggles.
May love, confidence and self worth find you all.
This all started because I wanted to post my positives, so here you go:
- I sit here one handed, loss of my dominant hand for the next few months. Stiches come out on Monday, then the real work begins.
- I have just successfully come through a medication issue on my own again, and it in itself has opened my eyes. This is not my first time, and I doubt it will be the last either.
- The support I've had thru above issue has been amazing. From existing friends, msgs on here, on FB, the support has been overwhelming. I didn't realise that I touched that many people, and am so thankful that what goes around comes around because each and every thought/prayer/vibe has helped me SUCCEED in this latest ordeal.
- Last night I slept.... 2 periods of over 3hrs. First time in 7 days. YES, you read that right. I have not slept longer than 20min intervels due to #1.
- My head is clear, my eyes are open, and just for that I am thankful.
I don't mean to sound bitter or anything like that....but anyone who can get sleep at night (more than 20mins at a time), has a bed to sleep in, a roof over their head, a person that cares about them
has A LOT to be thankful for.
A person that is healthy in most aspects, has A LOT to be thankful for.
A person that does NOT have to deal with chronic pain, has A LOT to be thankful for.
My point, not like many listen, is simple: OPEN YOUR EYES people. Look around you. I can bet that you have SOMETHING to be thankful for. A meal, a bed, a family member, a dollar in your pocket, the AIR in your lungs.
It took not a nice week for me to open my eyes. I can only HOPE that my post has inspired one person to look around, and in a day and age where there are a lot of struggles, find something to be thankful for.
Even if its just being able to read.
--------------------------------------------------------------------
My medication "issue", is that in order for me to have a semi normal life, I need the assistance of prescription pain medications, and have since I injured my back almost 5yrs ago.
Anyone who know even the littlest bit about narcotics, knows the struggles.
At one point in my life, way way prior to this injury, I led a few yrs of addictions.... yes plural. I beat those demons, and went on to lead a clean life.
Then I became injured, suffering chronic pain that at times is nothing worse that a strained muscle to excrutiating, horrible, unable to function pain. I take painkillers on an as needed basis.
I know myself well, and watch very very carefully for signs of physical dependence. For those that don't understand the difference between physical dependence or drug tolerance VS being an addict, that is a different post and I believe I've addressed it previously. There is a HUGE difference between taking pills to feel good vs taking pills because your quality of life is 0 without them. I will not get on that soapbox right now.
Anyways, with my recent surgery, my docs did NOT increase my pain meds.... so I had to take the ones I have on the clock, every 3-4hrs just to take the slightest of edges off. In a matter of 3-4 days, my body became dependent on those meds, and instead of me taking them as needed, I was taking them every 3-4hrs. because my body was telling me to.
As soon as I saw this, I went off of them. Cold turkey. Took my last dose Feb.13 at 7am. 4 days after surgery. I have spent this past week in withdrawal. Wed/Thurs were the hump days. Last night was the first night in a wk that I slept more than 20mins at a time.
( this by the way is #3 in a matter of 7-8mos. The first one was my docs fault when he cold turkied me off of one, put me on a lesser equivalent dosage of a stronger med....leading me into #1. #2 was just a month after that and now 6mos later. The two last ones were MY choice. I REFUSE to let my life be dictated by pills )
Today, my eyes are OPEN. Wide wide OPEN. I realised that I am not getting younger, that doing this is hard on my body and may eventually kill me, and that I do NOT want to keep having to do this. But these types of meds, will have a place in my life on a long term basis of that there is no question, unless I want to resign myself to being housebound, curled up in a ball of agony, unable to do the most basic of tasks.
I've realised that this med is NOT the med for me, and will be doing what I can to get that changed.
*end of medication issue*
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But most of all, my eyes have opened to EVERYTHING. To my darling husband, my 2 beautiful daughters, my life, my wishes, just everything.
I am THANKFUL to be alive. Yes my life is not one of sustance. I do not have the ability to work, to do "normal" wifely duties, to do "normal" mom stuff. BUT, I have life and in it I have love, friends, people near and far.
I don't want your sympathy, I don't need any justification/respect/suggestions/nada from you. I'm doing good....because my eyes are open, my head is clear, and for the first time in a while, ALL is well in my life.
What I want, my reason for writing this:
to hopefully get people to open their eyes to what is POSITIVE around them. When you feel down, take a look around, open your eyes and see the beauty that surrounds you.... Be thankful you have the ability to open your mouth and breath in some fresh air.
If I can make one person smile, one person say "yeah she's right", if one person opens their eyes to what we HAVE rather than don't have, then the hours I spent struggling to type this out, will not be a waste.
Be strong folks, be strong. Life is not a destination but a journey, and its YOUR choice how you decide to lead that.
And yes, lastly, I will use this one: If I can overcome all that I have in my mere 33yrs, then ANYONE can overcome their struggles.
May love, confidence and self worth find you all.