Ferals or just plain nervous kitties are such a challenge but at the end when they finally cuddle with you (sometimes this can take a looooong time!!) but it becomes worth the patience and tolerance and love when they finally get over it and love you.
I had gotten a kitten over the summer. I got him and his sister. They were not ferals. They were all born and raised together in a nice house. The girl was immediately a lover, not afraid of a thing. But her brother! Man he was afraid of his own shadow. It was frustrating cause I wanted him to like me. Well it took months but I kept talking to him and waiting. One day I had some tuna, he came up next to me looking. He had never gotten that close before. I let him taste a little tuna and guess what? He is all over me now. His fears are all gone. He is like a normal kittty!!! It was such a joyous time and so worth the wait.
So, now we have this fluffy kittty. I have written a lot about her. First I named her Hoodini, but hubby does not like that name and since he was the one that rescued her he named her Fluffy. We have had her now for 3 weeks. She did not come out at all for a week or so. Now she pops out little by little, but still runs belly to the ground. But she will stop and stare at me and I talk to her and she will just sit there. So I enjoy each milestone and keep in mind what we went through with Scooter. she is soooo fulffy and so pretty, I cant wait to hug her!!
I had gotten a kitten over the summer. I got him and his sister. They were not ferals. They were all born and raised together in a nice house. The girl was immediately a lover, not afraid of a thing. But her brother! Man he was afraid of his own shadow. It was frustrating cause I wanted him to like me. Well it took months but I kept talking to him and waiting. One day I had some tuna, he came up next to me looking. He had never gotten that close before. I let him taste a little tuna and guess what? He is all over me now. His fears are all gone. He is like a normal kittty!!! It was such a joyous time and so worth the wait.
So, now we have this fluffy kittty. I have written a lot about her. First I named her Hoodini, but hubby does not like that name and since he was the one that rescued her he named her Fluffy. We have had her now for 3 weeks. She did not come out at all for a week or so. Now she pops out little by little, but still runs belly to the ground. But she will stop and stare at me and I talk to her and she will just sit there. So I enjoy each milestone and keep in mind what we went through with Scooter. she is soooo fulffy and so pretty, I cant wait to hug her!!