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Siamese - 2 girl kitties

post #1 of 6
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There's a guy I know who has 2 cats, both girls, both siamese. I've never had one of those but I hear they're way smart!

Anyway, he has had the first one like 6 years and the new one has only lived there about 6 weeks.

I understand it's harder to introduce a female in a house with another female? I told him to take his time and not rush it. It's going ok but he still can't leave them alone together so he keeps the new cat in the guest room.

I guess the other nite he realized that sometime in the last 2 weeks, the new kitty peed in several places all over the bed in the guest room. When he discovered it, he flipped out and rubbed her nose in every spot and said she was a bad kitty and threw her in the bathroom with some water and a litterbox.

I told him to take her to the vet to check for a UTI. He agreed to do that but he said if she doesn't have a UTI, he is giving her away!

That's the long winded point of my post. I'm frustrated because this guy claims to love his cats. Yet he declaws them (all 4 paws mind you!), he yells at them often, he throws them in the carriers for hours if they do something bad, and now he is talking about getting rid of this one just cause she peed on the bed!

I tried to tell him the cat is likely stressed from being taken out of its home and tossed out and then coming to a new home with a new owner and a new cat. That's a lot for a cat to deal with! I feel like he has such high expectations of these poor cats and they're just animals! At some point you have to just say, Hey kitty I love ya but you gotta try harder not to pee outside the litter box, you know? But to toss it out like that? I mean, he is asking his vet to find a new home, he's not just throwing her outside. Thankfully cause ishe is declawed now so she can't defend herself!

I'm sorry you guys, I'm just really frustrated! I guess I just needed to vent. I got another beef with my great uncle who has an 8 year old with an infected paw. They waited too long to get it checked out and now they're saying if it's cancer, they need to put him down! It's a beautiful orange cat that looks like a lion and they want to put him down! Omg, it's enough to make me sick, all of these people who shouldn't be allowed to own pets!

Again, sorry for my rambling. As you can see, I'm real frustrated today.
post #2 of 6
OMG you sure do have some friends and relatives! Your post is the reason why I just can't take people! When I see what they do to animals, it makes me sick!

Is there any way you can take them? Seeing he is so quick to toss them out I would think it wouldn't be too hard for you to offer to take these poor cats. He is the cause of the problem. I repeat, he is the cause of all the problems. These poor animals are so stressed it has led to this. I can't even begin to address the declawing. It is a nice sunny day here and I really don't want to ruin it for myself by letting my blood pressure rise.

Can you check around to see if someone would be willing to foster them? The way he treats them is abuse IMO. If it were me, I'd tell him I was taking them and I would.

Now that you know what is going on at his place, I think you have a moral responsibility to help these little ones. And the other poor little one that has the infected paw....I don't know what to say. Is there a no kill shelter in your area?



God bless you for caring.
post #3 of 6
It sounds to me like this poor kitty is MUCH better off in a new home! Poor things, it really IS people like this that make it SUPER hard for me to keep my mouth shut.
post #4 of 6
Thread Starter 
I would have taken the new siamese but I can't right now because I'm dealing with a really sick kitty of my own and my new kitten that I just got before Thanksgiving. My older cat is almost 15 and despite my best efforts seems to be heading closer to the Rainbow Bridge. It has been devastating for me to watch him decline. I have to syringe feed him baby food 3 times a day cause he doesn't eat or drink water anymore. My kitten is a handful but he is keeping me busy.

And also I live in a townhome where the rules are no more than 2 animals per home. I'm on the board of directors so I don't think I can break that rule.

However, me and this guy use the same vet. I'm scheduled to get my kitten neutered on Monday so I'm going to talk to the vet and tell her what I think of the situation. She is eally cool so I'm sure she will handle it bacause she has helped people with having to rehome cats for various reasons before.

He's not really my friend. He's a guy I know through a friend. He calls me up sometimes when he is bored and wants to compllain about how much his life sucks. I have been to his house and seen the first siamese before. She is actually pretty healthy and doing fine. But she has lived there with him for 6 years so she knows how he is. Siamese are smarter than people so I think she knows what's up. The new one is likely just very stressed at her new situation, so I hope our vet can find her a better home. I haven't seen the new cat yet but I have been on the phone when she has been meowing and purring. She purrs like a jet engine!
post #5 of 6
Please impress it on your vet to talk to this "friend". Thank goodness this kitty has you on her side.

It is too bad about your older cat. It is so very hard to let go.

I would keep in touch with this guy just so you can monitor the situation.
You have a good heart to care so very much. It is a lot to bear, I know.

Please keep us posted.
post #6 of 6
Poor, poor kitties!!
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