Hi, guys. I have a question to ask
My Cat is 18. She is the meanest bitch who hate anything in world, including me, but I love each second of it. She is healthy but she is slowing down and now she is mostly lying and complaining about world. Still I pray God bless to be longer around her. She and I live in our apartment for 13 years. She did not take well our move 13 years back but she was much yonder then. She is indoor Cat and here home/territory for her is a whole universe, so it was my job and my great privilege to keep that universe comfortable for her.
Now it looks like I will be closing a house in the end of the moth. I am afraid that her age and at her level of neuroticism to change her home might be too dramatic and too painful for her. She has a million of small habits in our home, one is more idiotic then another and I play million small ceremonies with her to accommodate her habits. When I refuse to play those ceremonies she is disappointed and distressed but now I clearly recognized that many of those “ceremonies†are hard-bound to our current urban home. So, I am afraid that she might take a move to stressful and might experience trauma.
Sure, in the new suburb house she will have a lot of more opportunities but those “opportunities†might be a conviction of my consciousness not her feelings. So, does anybody have any advice how to make my move less stressful for her? I really like my new home but it is very important for me to know that my Cat will not hurt on any way while or after the move.
Rgs,
Romy The Cat
My Cat is 18. She is the meanest bitch who hate anything in world, including me, but I love each second of it. She is healthy but she is slowing down and now she is mostly lying and complaining about world. Still I pray God bless to be longer around her. She and I live in our apartment for 13 years. She did not take well our move 13 years back but she was much yonder then. She is indoor Cat and here home/territory for her is a whole universe, so it was my job and my great privilege to keep that universe comfortable for her.
Now it looks like I will be closing a house in the end of the moth. I am afraid that her age and at her level of neuroticism to change her home might be too dramatic and too painful for her. She has a million of small habits in our home, one is more idiotic then another and I play million small ceremonies with her to accommodate her habits. When I refuse to play those ceremonies she is disappointed and distressed but now I clearly recognized that many of those “ceremonies†are hard-bound to our current urban home. So, I am afraid that she might take a move to stressful and might experience trauma.
Sure, in the new suburb house she will have a lot of more opportunities but those “opportunities†might be a conviction of my consciousness not her feelings. So, does anybody have any advice how to make my move less stressful for her? I really like my new home but it is very important for me to know that my Cat will not hurt on any way while or after the move.
Rgs,
Romy The Cat
