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post #1 of 7
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Hello,

I recently saved a cat on top of my grandma's roof. I then let it down and gave it some food, I noticed that it didn't have a tag with it but I couldn't tell if it was a feral or stray cat. The first night, I tried to see if it would get into my car so that I could bring it home and give it shelter ... then decide on whether or not I should adopt it assuming the vet could confirm that it didn't have a chip implant for identity. However, it did not want to go into my car, but would get close to me and brush up against me...just got scared when I try to get it into my car. This concludes the first night.

The second night, I went to help grandma out with something, and this time, the cat was still around, probably because from the food I gave it the night before. This time, it seemed much more friendly and was willing to get in my car. So I took it home, bought some cat food at PETCO and a litter box. It was able to use the litter box without any problem. However, it would start to bite me if I were to pet it in certain spots.

Unfortunately, I also have birds in the house and noticed how aggressive the cat was towards the birds. After the 2nd night, it was evident that I couldn't adopt / care for the cat. I tried calling animal services to see if they could come and put the cat in a shelter, however, they said I had to confine the cat in a cage and didn't offer to let me borrow their cage since I didn't have one. I probably made some poor choices here, but the next thing I did was took the cat back to my grandma's and release it there.

I've been suffering from cat trauma lately due to 1) feeling sorry for the cat 2) afraid that every time I walk out my house, it would be there ready to run into my house straight to my birds

My grandma's house is about 3 miles away from my house, there are a few roads to cross and thus, my question is...would the cat be able to find its way back to my house after only staying one night in it?

This has been causing me a lot of stress and trauma lately. I realize I made bad decisions by taking the cat in and then realizing that I couldn't care for it.

What would be the best course of action if it does manage to find its way back (hoping it doesn't)?
post #2 of 7
It won't find your house. It has no references if you took it to the house and back to the previous location in your car.

A cat doesn't act "aggressive" toward a bird. It acts like a hunter, which it most certainly is.

It's too bad you couldn't keep this cat, which sounds like a stray and not a feral. In other words, at one time it was probably somebody's baby.

Many cats will make a biting motion if rubbed in certain places. Some of them actually have what is called "overstimulation biting." It means they get too excited when they are petted more than a certain amount.
post #3 of 7
That cat isn't going to come and stalk you or your birds. The cat is not the bad guy in this situation. Haven't you ever met any barn cats? They primarily live off rats, mice, birds, rabbits, snakes...etc. Even when you provide them food, they still hunt. The cat at your grandma's probably has survived off such a diet. The cat didn't come there to stalk your birds....you brought him there! He wasn't trying to be mean. Like everything on the food chain, he is in it for his own survival. Food for him isn't bought at the grocery store and isn't served up for him in a dish. So you see, he didn't mean to cause you so much terror....he was only trying to survive. The only one I feel sorry for in this situation is the poor kitty, who has been abandoned once again.
post #4 of 7
Thread Starter 
mrblanche,

Thanks for the comforting answer and confirmation.

sandy2u1,

I don't disagree with you at all. My whole family was not happy about me bringing the cat in, but it made it very difficult for everyone to live in the house together (including birds). My only option was to bring it back to where it came from. The other thing was I couldn't take the constant meow-ing outside my house if I were not to let it in. That was my biggest mistake, letting it in the house once, now it thinks that my house is home (not the cat's fault). I take full responsibility for this incident, and if I didn't let the cat in the house, I would have left it as an outdoor cat and feed it regularly as long as it know that it cannot come in the home.
post #5 of 7
Your heart was in the right place, but being abandoned again must have been terrible for her.

So, are you going over to your grandma's every day to feed her now?

Why not just get a cheap carrier, so they will take her at the shelter? Please don't just leave her there, poor kitty.
post #6 of 7
I apologize if I seemed harsh. I can understand cats and birds not making a happily ever after. I just took it kind of personally that you dropped the cat off without food, water, shelter or anything and it's the birds your worried about. I have a cat living in my basement...she just moved right in there. Somewhere along the line, she was abandoned or her mother was and now she is just trying to survive. Somewhere along the line a human dropped the ball and now she has to suffer. Please do something about the cat. Feed him and find him a home. He sounds like a sweetheart...he deserves a good home and someone to love him.
post #7 of 7
It does sound like your heart WAS in the right place hun. I agree with bringing the kitty to a local shelter, instead of being left outside to fend for itself. If you're able to help at all, can you take the kitty to a vet to be spayed/neutered? I was thinking maybe you could find a low cost spay/neuter program in your area. Do you have a spare room at all where maybe you could FOSTER the cat while trying to find it a new home?
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