You actually don't have to read this, I'm having a horrible day, and I don't understand. I'm sorry, just bypass this and find a more positive thread. I just needed to get it out.
Be Safe.
I don't get me today, I can't stop crying. I feel aweful. Started out with my DH having some unhappiness with me (understandable). Then I asked my bro's fiance to check my parents animals cuz I knew DH was gunna be off late. She didn't and didn't let me know she hadn't. 1am DH drives half hour to check them, comes home (with recese's peanut butter cups for me that I don't diserve ) gets up early today this morning to check them, with little sleep and goes to work for a full shift (they will be busy it's cold out). I feel horrid. I was so upset about the babiez not being checked on, I had an aweful dream about my mom, who has been gone since 11 hours after the towers fell in '01 (from cancer), and in the dream I was so angry at her, I broke her belongings to get back at her. That's nothing like me at all. I am so frusterated with myself at this point.
I let my stepmom know my bad (i try to always be honest and upfront when I mess up) I let her know everything was fine and I will not do that again. She came back with " January 24 at 2:03pm
i'm not going to go into it right now because i am not happy with your lack of responsibility. you asked but she didn't say one way or the other if she could and it didn't matter as i asked you and you passed the buck not the thing to do" When his fiance said "okay, I will". I don't know where she got the idea that she never said one way or the other, I assume she called her on it, and she lied about it. Now I feel really krappy. I tried to own up to my mistake, and I get this in return, especially since I expressed my dissapointment in my asking for help. I told her next time I will walk all the way out there in cold weather to make sure they were okay.
I feel so dumb at this point, I can't stop crying, and I just think this has mountained from a molehill. I thought being upfront and honest with her was the right thing to do, I guess I should have kept it from her and basically LIED about it. I should have walked the half hour drive from my house to take care of the animals that way nobody would have been put out of their way. I messed up so bad, and I can't calm myself down, and refocus on something positive. I've tried leaving positive messages on others threads, and I keep swinging back to tears. I'm not the kind of person to shrug off responsibilty usually, I just didn't want Tonka waiting longer, wich he did anyway. I am so floored by her reaction, especially the "She never answered either way" part, wich she said she would do it, if she hadn't said one way or the other, I would have taken that as a NO and found an alternate solution.
I just don't get why I feel this way. Maybe I am stressed. maybe something is really bothering me and this is what I am upset over because what is bothering me I don't want to deal with. I feel at a loss and petty and over dramatic right now. I've stopped myself from posting my feelings a few times today, but I can't stop crying. I really dislike myself right now. That isn't me. I'm not like this. I even put not so happy mood up on my facebook and myspace, wich isn't like me. I am so negative right now it hurts
Oh Creator, please help me get myself under control. What did I do to feel this way?
I'm so sorry (No need to reply or read this, I just needed to get it out.)
Be Safe.
I don't get me today, I can't stop crying. I feel aweful. Started out with my DH having some unhappiness with me (understandable). Then I asked my bro's fiance to check my parents animals cuz I knew DH was gunna be off late. She didn't and didn't let me know she hadn't. 1am DH drives half hour to check them, comes home (with recese's peanut butter cups for me that I don't diserve ) gets up early today this morning to check them, with little sleep and goes to work for a full shift (they will be busy it's cold out). I feel horrid. I was so upset about the babiez not being checked on, I had an aweful dream about my mom, who has been gone since 11 hours after the towers fell in '01 (from cancer), and in the dream I was so angry at her, I broke her belongings to get back at her. That's nothing like me at all. I am so frusterated with myself at this point.
I let my stepmom know my bad (i try to always be honest and upfront when I mess up) I let her know everything was fine and I will not do that again. She came back with " January 24 at 2:03pm
i'm not going to go into it right now because i am not happy with your lack of responsibility. you asked but she didn't say one way or the other if she could and it didn't matter as i asked you and you passed the buck not the thing to do" When his fiance said "okay, I will". I don't know where she got the idea that she never said one way or the other, I assume she called her on it, and she lied about it. Now I feel really krappy. I tried to own up to my mistake, and I get this in return, especially since I expressed my dissapointment in my asking for help. I told her next time I will walk all the way out there in cold weather to make sure they were okay.
I feel so dumb at this point, I can't stop crying, and I just think this has mountained from a molehill. I thought being upfront and honest with her was the right thing to do, I guess I should have kept it from her and basically LIED about it. I should have walked the half hour drive from my house to take care of the animals that way nobody would have been put out of their way. I messed up so bad, and I can't calm myself down, and refocus on something positive. I've tried leaving positive messages on others threads, and I keep swinging back to tears. I'm not the kind of person to shrug off responsibilty usually, I just didn't want Tonka waiting longer, wich he did anyway. I am so floored by her reaction, especially the "She never answered either way" part, wich she said she would do it, if she hadn't said one way or the other, I would have taken that as a NO and found an alternate solution.
I just don't get why I feel this way. Maybe I am stressed. maybe something is really bothering me and this is what I am upset over because what is bothering me I don't want to deal with. I feel at a loss and petty and over dramatic right now. I've stopped myself from posting my feelings a few times today, but I can't stop crying. I really dislike myself right now. That isn't me. I'm not like this. I even put not so happy mood up on my facebook and myspace, wich isn't like me. I am so negative right now it hurts
Oh Creator, please help me get myself under control. What did I do to feel this way?
I'm so sorry (No need to reply or read this, I just needed to get it out.)