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My husband and I have been feeding a feral cat boy for approx. 6 mos. He is a Lynx Point Siamese and developed a relationship with my husband who did the twice a day feeding. Sweet Pea used to wait close to the feeding area and just look at my husband while sharing blinks. We decided to trap him and rehab him. On Dec 22nd 2009 we trapped him and took him to the vet to be fixed and vaccinated and brought him home the same day. We put him in a crate in a separate bedroom. A local cat rescue group provided assistance and guidance through the process. They recommended we do not leave food in the cage but offer it to him in a bowl while keeping our hand on the bowl. This may not have been the right thing to do with him. On Dec 24th he attacked and bit my husbandâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s gloved hand and managed to get out the cage and in a frantic pace he started literally flying on the walls. My husband managed to catch him and put him back in the cage.
This incident traumatized Sweet Pea tremendously. We proceeded the same morning to get some wood planks and started isolating him at the back of the cage so that we could clean his litter box and put fresh food/water. We use these planks everyday nowThe problem is that we think he is terrified of our hands. He constantly watches them and once of a sudden he growls and snarls. We are petting him with a back scratcher and he loves it but he watches the hand that holds the back scratcher and is very aware of it, I can see it in his eyes. We stopped leaving the food for him in the cage to eat this past weekend. Instead we put the wooden planks and isolate him towards the end of the cage and then my husband slides the bowl of food (wet and dry) under the bottom plank and puts his finger on it. The first two days of this feeding procedure Sweet Pea did not eat at all but then hunger took over. In a few days my husband intends to put two, then three fingers on the bowl etc. Sweet Pea always comes and eats but hisses and sometimes spits when we move towards the cage, and itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s usually associated with the movement of our hands. We try to keep them in fist shape when we are around him.
Sweet Pea allows himself to sleep in our presence. A few times he looked playful and curious and when my hand was close enough he reached out with his paw and tapped me, then sniffed my hand. He also tapped my husbandâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s hand the first time we forced him to come and eat. Yesterday he accepted to play with the cat dancer and after that he almost rolled on his back showing off, then he started to groom himself in front of me. We know we have to make him understand our hands love him. He is very vocal. We have four other kitties in the house and we petted 2 of them in the doorway for him to see itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s ok to be a kitty in our house. We visit him 5-6 times a day. I have a home office and I am the main caretaker. I spend time with him, just being in the room and talking to him, scratching if he wants me too etc, try to get him interested in feathered toys etc. We have classical music for him, a soft light, Feliway and lavender sachets. Can you please advise us what to do next, how to break his fear of our hands? We love him very much. He is approx. 2 years old.
Thank you!
My husband and I have been feeding a feral cat boy for approx. 6 mos. He is a Lynx Point Siamese and developed a relationship with my husband who did the twice a day feeding. Sweet Pea used to wait close to the feeding area and just look at my husband while sharing blinks. We decided to trap him and rehab him. On Dec 22nd 2009 we trapped him and took him to the vet to be fixed and vaccinated and brought him home the same day. We put him in a crate in a separate bedroom. A local cat rescue group provided assistance and guidance through the process. They recommended we do not leave food in the cage but offer it to him in a bowl while keeping our hand on the bowl. This may not have been the right thing to do with him. On Dec 24th he attacked and bit my husbandâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s gloved hand and managed to get out the cage and in a frantic pace he started literally flying on the walls. My husband managed to catch him and put him back in the cage.
This incident traumatized Sweet Pea tremendously. We proceeded the same morning to get some wood planks and started isolating him at the back of the cage so that we could clean his litter box and put fresh food/water. We use these planks everyday nowThe problem is that we think he is terrified of our hands. He constantly watches them and once of a sudden he growls and snarls. We are petting him with a back scratcher and he loves it but he watches the hand that holds the back scratcher and is very aware of it, I can see it in his eyes. We stopped leaving the food for him in the cage to eat this past weekend. Instead we put the wooden planks and isolate him towards the end of the cage and then my husband slides the bowl of food (wet and dry) under the bottom plank and puts his finger on it. The first two days of this feeding procedure Sweet Pea did not eat at all but then hunger took over. In a few days my husband intends to put two, then three fingers on the bowl etc. Sweet Pea always comes and eats but hisses and sometimes spits when we move towards the cage, and itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s usually associated with the movement of our hands. We try to keep them in fist shape when we are around him.
Sweet Pea allows himself to sleep in our presence. A few times he looked playful and curious and when my hand was close enough he reached out with his paw and tapped me, then sniffed my hand. He also tapped my husbandâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s hand the first time we forced him to come and eat. Yesterday he accepted to play with the cat dancer and after that he almost rolled on his back showing off, then he started to groom himself in front of me. We know we have to make him understand our hands love him. He is very vocal. We have four other kitties in the house and we petted 2 of them in the doorway for him to see itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s ok to be a kitty in our house. We visit him 5-6 times a day. I have a home office and I am the main caretaker. I spend time with him, just being in the room and talking to him, scratching if he wants me too etc, try to get him interested in feathered toys etc. We have classical music for him, a soft light, Feliway and lavender sachets. Can you please advise us what to do next, how to break his fear of our hands? We love him very much. He is approx. 2 years old.
Thank you!