Those of you who foster... how do you handle getting very attached to the kitties and letting them go?
I feel like a total meanie stuffing the cats into carriers and dragging them to the pet store to show them. They cry all the way there and back.... they act THRILLED to be back in my house... one cat in particular did a circuit around my livingroom. .... stopped in the middle... let out a couple of heartwrenching meows.. and then rubbed on every other cat in the place... sooo glad to see them.
I know I cannot keep them... I have seven to rehome... but I am so attached and love them all dearly. For instance - Casper desperately needs a real home... he has my spare bedroom and it is just not enough. And he is afraid of Archie in particular who takes delight in torturing him. It is a challenge to manage that situation.
I have that feeling that for the most part --- that I do not trust someone else to take the kind of care of them that Doug and I are providing. I know that is a slippery mental slope... don't worry... I won't become a hoarder.
I just need some advice to deal with my emotions in this situation.
Thanks!!
I feel like a total meanie stuffing the cats into carriers and dragging them to the pet store to show them. They cry all the way there and back.... they act THRILLED to be back in my house... one cat in particular did a circuit around my livingroom. .... stopped in the middle... let out a couple of heartwrenching meows.. and then rubbed on every other cat in the place... sooo glad to see them.
I know I cannot keep them... I have seven to rehome... but I am so attached and love them all dearly. For instance - Casper desperately needs a real home... he has my spare bedroom and it is just not enough. And he is afraid of Archie in particular who takes delight in torturing him. It is a challenge to manage that situation.
I have that feeling that for the most part --- that I do not trust someone else to take the kind of care of them that Doug and I are providing. I know that is a slippery mental slope... don't worry... I won't become a hoarder.
I just need some advice to deal with my emotions in this situation.
Thanks!!