Here is the history of our situation: Our youngest cat, Mouse, is 9 years old and, until recently, was the youngest of 5 cats. Soon after we got Mouse as a kitten, we acquired a dog whom we have never been able to cure of chasing cats who run from her, which includes Mouse. To her credit, she doesn't hurt them, just corners them, but Mouse has always been afraid of her. Therefore, Mouse lives in one end of our house which consists of the bedroom and the bathroom; she only ventures out to eat or for her litterbox and then she is always on the lookout. I believe she loves us and is bonded to us. We lost 2 cats last summer, but still have 3 cats and 3 dogs and undoubtedly the dogs suck up most of our attention, as dogs are prone to do.
Last month, our daughter moved out and announced that she wanted to take Mouse with her. She lives in a large, old house with several roommates and 3 cats. These are all cat people and no dogs are allowed, as it would scare the cats. After moving out, she hadn't said anything more about Mouse and we assumed she had changed her mind or forgotten the idea and we were prepared to just let that happen. Last night, she informed me that she had bought Mouse a collar, her own litter box, so on and so forth and would be taking her soon. My husband admitted to me that he really doesn't want her to take Mouse. I am in a quandry. Our daughter would be disappointed if we refused, but she would get over it, and Mouse's welfare is my main concern. My feelings are that it would be worth a try, that Mouse might possibly be very happy there, and she could always come back if she wasn't settling in. Can I please get any opinions out there about whether we should let Mouse give this a try or not? Maybe she is too old to adjust, I don't know. Could the move traumatize her too much?
Last month, our daughter moved out and announced that she wanted to take Mouse with her. She lives in a large, old house with several roommates and 3 cats. These are all cat people and no dogs are allowed, as it would scare the cats. After moving out, she hadn't said anything more about Mouse and we assumed she had changed her mind or forgotten the idea and we were prepared to just let that happen. Last night, she informed me that she had bought Mouse a collar, her own litter box, so on and so forth and would be taking her soon. My husband admitted to me that he really doesn't want her to take Mouse. I am in a quandry. Our daughter would be disappointed if we refused, but she would get over it, and Mouse's welfare is my main concern. My feelings are that it would be worth a try, that Mouse might possibly be very happy there, and she could always come back if she wasn't settling in. Can I please get any opinions out there about whether we should let Mouse give this a try or not? Maybe she is too old to adjust, I don't know. Could the move traumatize her too much?