Reactions to Feliway

Hi all
i have posted on this issue before
its been 4 months since we moved with our 3 fur babies from the middle east to Australia
while in quarantine the female cleo was in a different cage to the 2 boys who are bothers as quarantine couldnt have 3 cats in one cage together

anyway since coming out and being together cleo and tigger just dont get along, he chases her and attacks her, but on occasion he chases and jumps on Sparky as well but not so often

the other day he chased and attacked cleo to the point it looked like a pillow had exploded on the floor and she peed herself

even though he attacks her she only ends up with some scratches or lil chunks of hair missing, nothing too terrible has happened.....yet

anyway i cannot separate them as i am in a loft style house and have no doors so cannot shut them away from each other

i have one feliway diffuser at the mo as have order the spray and another one online

i dont know if its working as one diffuser in a very open house prob isnt doing much but so far it hasnt done squat, Tiggy is still having his moments though is a tad more sooky with me

however Cleo is twitching and growling and grrring and jumping about and i am wondering if it is a reaction to the diffuser as she sleeps closest to it whereas the boys dont hang around its general area

i will see how it goes and if the diffusers and sprays dont work i think i will have to get her on some anti anxiety meds as i think she is not a very happy bunny at all and will hide all day under a chair in fear of Tiggy, unless i am home

as for him i will have to see what the vet can do, i am baffled as he is a loving and total pathetic cat apart from these issues ...maybe some cat prozac or valium i dont know

every morn i go to work and when i get back i am paranoid i am gonna come back to something dreadful, however seems they dont fight at all during the day as there is never any hair around .... and when they fight there is hair everywhere

i just dont know why she is all twitchy etc , has anyones cats had negative reactions to the feliway

only other time she has been like this is when she has had her shots and had bad reactions to them

i was going to leave tiggy in the loo yesterday but the bathrooms so poorly ventilated and small i felt it would be more cruel to do this

i dont think i can even get cleo in the bathroom as she is acting really feral

growling and hissing and licking and twitching, she keeps trying to get under the covers but then growls and acts so weird i am scared in case she attacks my legs or somethings

i gave her a box to be in to hide away but she went in it and had a feral episode n came out

she keeps just licking herself in one spot so i am thinking maybe something has bitten her cos she was fine yesterday and suddenly this behaviour came out of nowhere
Australia is full of creepy crawlies so maybe its something

anyway i will try get her to a vet, how i will get her in her cage i have no idea

hubby is away and its so hard dealing with all of this alone, its making me stressed ... i have to sleep with one eye open and ears open in case something happens and constantly have cleo in and out of the bed

i think the only thing i can do is somehow get her 2 a vet and she needs some meds cos this is nuts now and i cannot deal with it, esp since we want to have a baby ...i cant have a highly unpredictable cat around

thanks for all your replies

xxxx

came home from work and Cleo had licked herself sore and was going nuts

anyway took her to the all night emergency vets, they will sedate her and see what she was licking and sort it out

:o(

poor baby

anyway have an hour before i call 2 find out if i can go get her, if its infected they will have to knock her out to clean it out etc

i will make an appointment with the normal vet after Xmas and take her n Tiggy and get this issue sorted, i think they will need meds, the emergency vet said it sounded like it too