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I could really use some tips and advice from the experienced rescuers around here. I've done cat and dog rescue for quite a few years now both on my own and for others but this year I finally took the leap to start my own rescue to have a way to help the many, many street cats around here that nobody else, except for animal control, will take.
I want all my cats to go to good, loving, responsible forever homes and I recognize that these homes can look many different ways. I don't want to dismiss good homes because of technicalities and I don't want to be one of those rescues that won't be flexible. But I also have standards and I don't want to lower my standards to place a cat.
One thing that I think is very important is that everyone in the home is on board about adopting a cat. This is an animal that could be with you for the next twenty years so adopting a cat should be a well thought out decision. Now I'm having a situation that I'm not quite sure how to deal with and I'd like to get other people's input.
With Christmas coming up I've been getting a lot of inquireries about my kittens. I don't think that there is necessarily anything wrong with adopting a pet for Christmas as long as you are aware and prepared for this being a long term commitment and not just a fun thing for Christmas. However, I've been getting emails from people saying that they want to adopt a kitten as a surprise for their spouse and I'm not sure how to deal with that. I would never allow someone to adopt one of my cats for someone else, like a friend, but when it's for a spouse the cat is staying with the person that adopted him. Of course the adopter would have to fill out an application and have a home visit like everyone else but since it's a surprise I would not be able to meet the other spouse.
How do other rescues deal with this? Should I turn down these adopters automatically if I'm not sure that all family members are on board or should I take a chance if all else seems good?
Any input would be very much appreciated.
I want all my cats to go to good, loving, responsible forever homes and I recognize that these homes can look many different ways. I don't want to dismiss good homes because of technicalities and I don't want to be one of those rescues that won't be flexible. But I also have standards and I don't want to lower my standards to place a cat.
One thing that I think is very important is that everyone in the home is on board about adopting a cat. This is an animal that could be with you for the next twenty years so adopting a cat should be a well thought out decision. Now I'm having a situation that I'm not quite sure how to deal with and I'd like to get other people's input.
With Christmas coming up I've been getting a lot of inquireries about my kittens. I don't think that there is necessarily anything wrong with adopting a pet for Christmas as long as you are aware and prepared for this being a long term commitment and not just a fun thing for Christmas. However, I've been getting emails from people saying that they want to adopt a kitten as a surprise for their spouse and I'm not sure how to deal with that. I would never allow someone to adopt one of my cats for someone else, like a friend, but when it's for a spouse the cat is staying with the person that adopted him. Of course the adopter would have to fill out an application and have a home visit like everyone else but since it's a surprise I would not be able to meet the other spouse.
How do other rescues deal with this? Should I turn down these adopters automatically if I'm not sure that all family members are on board or should I take a chance if all else seems good?
Any input would be very much appreciated.