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Hi everyone,
It has been...wow...a LONG time since I've been on here. I hope everyone is doing great! I'm on here after what could only be described as an unbelieveable year...
Last Christmas Day, I gave birth to our son, Cabell (rhymes with "scrabble" or "babble"). He was beautiful and we thought he was the picture of health. At three months old, he wound up in the hospital with bronchitis and after that just never was the same...he would hardly eat, couldn't breathe well, etc. etc. After months and months of going to the doctor and not figuring out what was wrong, the doctor took an x-ray because they heard fluid in his lungs. What they discovered was a grossly enlarged heart.
Cabell was immediately taken by ambulance to a hospital in Atlanta and diagnosed with dilated cardiomyopathy, a rare disease in which the heart enlarges and cannot pump efficiently. 1/3 of all DCM patients get better with oral medicine, 1/3 simply stabilize on oral meds, and 1/3 die without a heart transplant. Unfortunately, the doctors learned very quickly that Cabell was in that last third. He was listed for a heart transplant on 7/7/09.
On 8/26/09, we got the call that a donor heart had become available. Cabell had a successful heart transplant that afternoon and now, almost 3.5 months later, I am very happy to announce that he is doing AMAZING. He eats like a dream, sleeps through the night, and is starting to hit some of the developmental milestones that he missed out on during his 99 days living in a hospital bed.
To say that our family has been through QUITE a year is an understatement, but Cabell has emerged victorious and we are so grateful to God, his amazing doctors, nurses, and transplant team, and to the incredibly courageous and generous donor family who gave our son a chance at life!
I've missed everyone here and hope you all are doing great!
Amy
PS- Eponine and Cosette are doing just great!
They love their baby!
 

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What an unbelievable year! Congrats on the birth of your son and getting the heart transplant. Many vibes that he stays healthy.
 

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It's so great to hear from you, Amy!
What a year you've had and what a relief that your precious little boy is now doing well. I'll keep Cabell in my thoughts and prayers. Glad to hear the girls are doing well too.
 

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It's good to hear from you, Amy! Man, what a year you have had! I'm glad that your sweet boy is doing well.
 

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Welcome back, Amy! You've had quite a year, but it's so fortunate that Cabell is doing well now. Congratulations!
 

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Great to hear from you, Amy! So glad to hear your baby boy is doing well.

Been wondering how the drama queens have been doing.
 

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Congratulations on surviving the year.

Great to see you back - glad everything is now going well for your little one.
 

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Hello Amy! I just got goosebumps reading your post!!! I am so glad that Cabell is doing so well after the transplant!

 

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Welcome Back! I cannot imagine what this past year has been like. Thank God for the blessing of Cabell and that he is doing great now. We need to see pics of your little blessing when you get a chance.
 

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Wow that is quite a year you've been through! I'm happy to hear your son is doing well now. Best wishes for continued heath!!
 
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Thank you so much everyone! It's great to "see" so many familiar faces welcoming me back
. Not sure how often I'll have time to be active here, but I will definitely try to post pictures as soon as I can! For now, I do have one as my profile pic, taken about 2 months post-transplant!
Cabell is certianly a little miracle, that's for sure. Not sure if any parent has ever been as proud of their baby as I am!
 

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Wow, what a stressful first year of life! I'm so glad you were able to get a donor heart for him, and that he's doing so well now!
I can imagine you must appreciate each and every moment you have with your little man


Just out of curiosity's sake, having had open heart surgery myself (not a transplant though), does the heart now grow as he grows? Are donor hearts likely to have problems in the future? Does he have to take anti-rejection drugs, or does the body accept hearts pretty readily? The heart is a fascinating thing....

And yes - more pics please
 
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Sarah- the heart will grow as he grows, but there are potential complications down the road (too many to list) and most people who survive for more than 10-15 years with a heart transplant end up getting another transplant at some point. However, there are some new medicines in development now that give us a LOT of hope that he will not need future translpants.
Currently, he is on 9 medicines total, with the hope of him being on only 5-6 medicines after the one-year mark. He is on 3 anti-rejection meds and 1 of them, Prograf, is the one that he'll probably be on his entire life. His transplant was rather interesting as they did an ABO-incompatible heart (his blood is AB+ and his donor's blood was A+). It's something new-ish that can only be done in infants, but they are having great success with such transplants.
If you don't mind my asking, what was your open-heart for? I agree with you that the heart is completely fascinating!
I have to get on my soapbox for just one second and ask everyone reading this that, if you're not an organ donor, please consider becoming one! You have NO IDEA what a huge impact your gift could make on others!!!
 

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My God, what a year you've been through Amy! How gut wrenching to have yor little baby go through all that. Thank you for dropping in and giving us all an update on your life though. It's nice to "see" you again. I wish you all the best for Cabell's continued health.
 

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Originally Posted by ugaimes

Cabell is certianly a little miracle, that's for sure. Not sure if any parent has ever been as proud of their baby as I am!
But certainly you´ll going to teach him to be Cat lover right?.....


Hola y bienvenido nuevamente a TCS, ...Catulina
Milky
y Horacio
te saludan!!!
........

(Translate: Hi and Welcome BACK to TCS, Catulina, Milky & Horatio say hello to you!!!...
)




I hope you find not only old members, but also new good members here, Please feel again as your home and ask whatever you need to know, there are plenty of good members and of course our tireness Mod´s to help us here!....


See you on the forums!, Glad that you re-join us!
 

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Originally Posted by CoolCat

Please feel again as your home and ask whatever you need to know, there are plenty of good members and of course our tireness Mod´s to help us here!....
If you need help Amy just shout

From the small picture in your avatar he's a little cutie!!
 

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Originally Posted by ugaimes

Sarah- the heart will grow as he grows, but there are potential complications down the road (too many to list) and most people who survive for more than 10-15 years with a heart transplant end up getting another transplant at some point. However, there are some new medicines in development now that give us a LOT of hope that he will not need future translpants.
Currently, he is on 9 medicines total, with the hope of him being on only 5-6 medicines after the one-year mark. He is on 3 anti-rejection meds and 1 of them, Prograf, is the one that he'll probably be on his entire life. His transplant was rather interesting as they did an ABO-incompatible heart (his blood is AB+ and his donor's blood was A+). It's something new-ish that can only be done in infants, but they are having great success with such transplants.
If you don't mind my asking, what was your open-heart for? I agree with you that the heart is completely fascinating!
I have to get on my soapbox for just one second and ask everyone reading this that, if you're not an organ donor, please consider becoming one! You have NO IDEA what a huge impact your gift could make on others!!!
I agree, if he does fine the next 10 years, the technology will be so much better. The stuff they're doing is incredible - I can't believe they were able to do an ABO-incompatible heart, that's amazing!

Can you mix the medicines in with his food? I can't imagine having to give that many meds to a kid. I have an early memory of when I was 3 or 4 of my parents trying to get some sort of medicine down my throat, and my dad was holding me down while mum tried to shove it down with me kicking and screaming


I had an aortic aneurysm, right where the aorta joins the heart, so I had a valve-sparing aortic root replacement, which in itself was a 9 hour surgery. I was lucky in that they could save my valve - getting a bovine/mechanical valve was not something I wanted. There's a 50% chance my kids will have the same thing, but I figure by the time they're old enough for it to affect them, the ways of fixing this sort of thing will be much more advanced.

I have to agree with you - every person should be on the donor list. Tell your friends, tell your family, make sure everyone is on board. If they can't save you, at least your life could literally save many others. Be a bone marrow donor too - they just take a saliva sample, and you will only get called if you're a direct match for someone.
 
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