Hi, I'm brand new on this forum. My name is Tina, and I have 3 cats. I have one 14 year old, and 2 siblings who are 7 years. My problem is this-7 years ago I encountered a skinny stray, so sweet! I took her home and settled her in with my then 7 year old WooBoo. Three weeks later, she gave birth to 3 black kittens (to our surprise). I loved them all, but my husband told me to find homes for them. I gave one to my dear friend, feeling confident this would be a forever loving home for him. When I could not find suitable or good homes for the others, my husband was already bonded with them, and now would do anything for all of these cats. (the momma died last March due to a severe reaction to a rabies vaccination. That is another heartbreaking incident) Well, my friend who took the kitten adopted 2 puppies about a year ago. The cat did not adjust well and pooped/peed on her clothing, etc. She has since banished him to her cold basement where he receives no love or attention. I saw her yesterday, and she casually commented how she wants to put him to sleep! When I told her I'd gladly "take him off her hands", she blew it off. It's like she'd rather he have a bad life, or no life at all! PLEASE HELP! I want him back-how can I do this without causing too much friction?