Stop using shampoo.
Shampoo strips the natural oil off your hair (well that's what it's supposed to do!
). However, those wonderful natural oils will tame your frizzies! Plus your hair will start "self cleaning" after about a month (where the oils have reached the point where they will cover the hair shaft enough to repel dirt). I know it doesn't sound like the most appetizing prospect in the world - but trust me it works! I've had allot of very fine curly/frizzy hair my entire life and this is the ONLY thing that has EVER worked (and I have tried it ALL!!!!).
And no my head does not look oily or greasy at all
(gray however... is another matter...)
(This information actually came from an article I read a few years ago from a curly-hair specialist. I've been DIEING to go to their Salon back home in Toronto - a salon JUST for culy hair... *sigh*)
I condition at least 4-5 times a week (I use Treseme, I just started with it & so far I love it!), and will use water & finger to scrub at my scalp.
However, while I was working at a horse barn I had to shampoo at least once a week because of the amount of dirt in my work. Then I used baby-shampoo which is gentler on your hair.