This is what I do:
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| Do you feed enough to fill them up for a day, or just enough to "supplement" their diet? |
I feed enough to supplement their diet. I don't want them to become completely dependent on me in case something happens and I can no longer feed them and nobody else can take over.
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| If you can't feed one day for whatever reason, what do you do? |
I don't worry about it. If I can get there early the next morning I do that, otherwise I just feed them the next night.
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| Do you feed on the ground, on plates that you reuse each day, or do you get them a new plate each day? |
I just feed on the concrete. I spread dry food out in a line, and portion out tinned food on top of the dry so each cat gets a chunk of wet food each.
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| Do you try and spend time with them, and try to pat them, and REALLY gain their trust? |
They have started trusting me more and know me well, and are at the stage where they're wary of me, but not scared of me. I'm torn about this. I don't want them to be too trusting of humans, because there's mean people out there, but if I can touch them, I can put flea treatment on them. One pat I can pat while she's eating now, so I'll Advantage her soon. I figure if I can just touch them enough to de-flea them, I'll do that and leave it at that.
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| If one of them seems a little more friendly than the others, and will sit in your lap, purr etc. do you try and make it adoptable, or leave it where it is? |
Unless it's a kitten, I leave them out there, although I haven't had a cat get this friendly. They are feral cats used to being outside, and the 2 colonies we take care of are in pretty safe areas, where the cats have a warm place to sleep, and enough of a food source to keep them happy. I see them as "urban farm cats".
The other lady just got very upset at me because she apparently asked me a long time ago to look after her cats this weekend, and I have no recollection of it. She asked me about another date which I put me in my calendar, but I don't remember this one. There will only be one night that they won't get fed, and I said they'll be fine and she went on about how they build up trust and if you don't feed them every night, then they lose that trust. She feeds them enough that they don't have to search for other food and gets VERY emotionally attached to each cat, which I don't necessarily think is a good thing. She's always trying to take cats home with her (she already has a houseful), and I have to keep gently reminding her they are fine where they are.
She got upset last time I went away because I feed directly on the concrete. She uses containers, but never changes them, or washes them, so I don't really see the difference. My way, the cats can all eat together which they like to do, and they drink out of puddles and eat mice, so I think they have a pretty good tolerance for eating a bit of dirt. They polish off the food I give them, and if they don't the racoons finish it off, so the food never sits out for too long.