Or has tipping become mandatory?
I was under the impression that when you tipped someone it was to award them for a job well done.
Aparently one of the waitresses at the resteraunt that we frequent doesn't think so. She thinks that we ought to tip her because she provides a service.
What service does she provide, you ask?
She brings me a glass of water.
Yep, that's it. And sometimes, if I'm particularly thirsty, she might refill it once.
It's a buffet resteraunt.
I have always felt that you shouldn't tip at buffets because they don't really do much of anything for you, unless you are able to actually order a meal that they pysically bring to your table.
And I always knew that she wanted a tip because she gives us change in all singles, and extremely dirty looks when we don't leave her money... But today she had the audacity to say "How come you tip the sushi guy but not your waitress?"
To which cody replied "Because all you do is bring me water." Which I think is an extremely fair response. I felt compelled to say "You are lucky to even have a job right now." or "If you want tips, start making sushi."
I feel that the guy who prepares the sushi has done a lot to earn his tip. For those of you who eat sushi, I am sure that you know it's not a cheap food to eat (or prepare if you are adventurous) yet we can both eat there for less than 15 dollars, when most sushi places are 15 dollars for one roll. Sushi is also fairly difficult to make and he makes some gorgeous rolls and takes backhanded insults all the time from ignorant americans that don't even have the heart to try something new.
So no... I'm sorry mrs. waitress. You bring me water and (sometimes) clear my table for me. By your logic, I should tip the busboy when I go out to eat, since that is essentially the job that you perform.
The bottom line is, Tipping is a Privilege that you earn, not a Right that you are entitled to.
Sorry for the long rant. ^^ Money is tight and I can't believe how greedy some people are!!! Maybe I'm wrong... What are you guys thoughts on this? Should I tip her?
I wouldn't eat there anymore except for the fact that it is the only place in downriver MI that serves good sushi...
Hey! At least "sushi-guy" likes us!
I was under the impression that when you tipped someone it was to award them for a job well done.
Aparently one of the waitresses at the resteraunt that we frequent doesn't think so. She thinks that we ought to tip her because she provides a service.
What service does she provide, you ask?
She brings me a glass of water.
Yep, that's it. And sometimes, if I'm particularly thirsty, she might refill it once.
I have always felt that you shouldn't tip at buffets because they don't really do much of anything for you, unless you are able to actually order a meal that they pysically bring to your table.
And I always knew that she wanted a tip because she gives us change in all singles, and extremely dirty looks when we don't leave her money... But today she had the audacity to say "How come you tip the sushi guy but not your waitress?"
To which cody replied "Because all you do is bring me water." Which I think is an extremely fair response. I felt compelled to say "You are lucky to even have a job right now." or "If you want tips, start making sushi."
I feel that the guy who prepares the sushi has done a lot to earn his tip. For those of you who eat sushi, I am sure that you know it's not a cheap food to eat (or prepare if you are adventurous) yet we can both eat there for less than 15 dollars, when most sushi places are 15 dollars for one roll. Sushi is also fairly difficult to make and he makes some gorgeous rolls and takes backhanded insults all the time from ignorant americans that don't even have the heart to try something new.
So no... I'm sorry mrs. waitress. You bring me water and (sometimes) clear my table for me. By your logic, I should tip the busboy when I go out to eat, since that is essentially the job that you perform.
The bottom line is, Tipping is a Privilege that you earn, not a Right that you are entitled to.
Sorry for the long rant. ^^ Money is tight and I can't believe how greedy some people are!!! Maybe I'm wrong... What are you guys thoughts on this? Should I tip her?
I wouldn't eat there anymore except for the fact that it is the only place in downriver MI that serves good sushi...
Hey! At least "sushi-guy" likes us!