Vibes please for Milkmaid

jennyr

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I introduced Milkmaid to TCS only a month or two ago, and she really likes it here as she learns all about you all. She is having a terrible time right now and could use some really good vibes.

She lost her cat Sylvester last week, victim of a horrific car accident. Today, at the vet of all places, her dog Fozzie died as he was coming round from a run-of-the-mill neuter operation. The vet did an immediate autopsy, but could find no reason for it. She had taken him in to be done at the same time as she took Cookie (who was my foster kitten and is now 6 months old) as although he was 7 years old, there had really been no need. Now, her new(ish) partner has female dogs and she decided that her two (males) should be fixed. We all know how awful it is when you are trying to do the right thing and something goes badly wrong. She is devastated and feeling responsible for Fozzie's death.

I am sure she will do a bridge thread for Fozzie when she feels able, but right now I thought I would give you all some background, and ask for your support.
 

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That's terrible, and I really feel for her. My condolences, and lots of for her to get through two losses in such a short time.
 

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What a horrible chain of events. Please give her our love and assurance that we are thinking of her. I hope she'll be back soon to receive our thoughts firsthand.
 

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Oh my gosh, I am so sory for your loss Milkmaid.
You were in NO WAY, repeat that with me, NO WAY responsible for Fozzie's death. And to have lost a kitty to a car accident as well, my heart is breaking with yours.
If you need anyone to talk to Milkmaid, we are here, always, PM or post, we are here for you.
I am so sorry this hapened to you and your fur family.
to the bridge, they will meet many wonderful critters and people there!
for you and your heart, you did nothing wrong, know that.
 

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Originally Posted by Trillcat

Oh my gosh, I am so sory for your loss Milkmaid.
You were in NO WAY, repeat that with me, NO WAY responsible for Fozzie's death. And to have lost a kitty to a car accident as well, my heart is breaking with yours.
If you need anyone to talk to Milkmaid, we are here, always, PM or post, we are here for you.
I am so sorry this hapened to you and your fur family.
to the bridge, they will meet many wonderful critters and people there!
for you and your heart, you did nothing wrong, know that.
Well sad.

Milkmaid, you were NOT responsible for Fozzies death... no way


I am so terribly sorry that you are having an awful time right now....

Please, we're all hear to listen if you want to vent/cry/whatever.

 

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So sorry Milkmaid, I can't imagine how you must be feeling.
Many hugs and vibes headed your way.
 

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Thank you all so much for your thoughts and vibes, I will put Fozzie on the crossing the bridge thread when I can stop crying for long enough. I am just so so sad right now.
 

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Originally Posted by Milk maid

Thank you all so much for your thoughts and vibes, I will put Fozzie on the crossing the bridge thread when I can stop crying for long enough. I am just so so sad right now.
We know the feeling all too well around here. Take your time, and please, be gentle with yourself.
 
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