When Aya was a kitten she had a period of what I call separation anxiety. I live alone and so obviously have to leave her to fend for herself while I'm gone. She seemed to grow out of it, although we're still really excited and 'happy to see you' when I come home.
Lately she's started again. In the morning she follows me around and mews mournfully. The trigger is usually me going into the shower and standing in front of the mirror to put on my makeup. She's a real smart cat to have figured out that I only do this prior to leaving the house, as opposed to weekends when I just go in to shower (she likes to watch
). When I put on makeup she'll hop on the sink and stretch up and try to grab me or the towel bar to get my attention. She also puts her front feet on the mirror and mews at me through the mirror. It's the most pathetic worrisome little noise she makes.
We have goodbye treats and a big pil o' toys in the middle of the floor. Also she gets her morning meal when I wake up at 7am. I leave at 8am. I should add that this started after a 3 day weekend where it was rainy and dreary so I was basiacally stuck at home with her for most of 3 days. I think it got her spoiled.
Lately she's started again. In the morning she follows me around and mews mournfully. The trigger is usually me going into the shower and standing in front of the mirror to put on my makeup. She's a real smart cat to have figured out that I only do this prior to leaving the house, as opposed to weekends when I just go in to shower (she likes to watch
). When I put on makeup she'll hop on the sink and stretch up and try to grab me or the towel bar to get my attention. She also puts her front feet on the mirror and mews at me through the mirror. It's the most pathetic worrisome little noise she makes.We have goodbye treats and a big pil o' toys in the middle of the floor. Also she gets her morning meal when I wake up at 7am. I leave at 8am. I should add that this started after a 3 day weekend where it was rainy and dreary so I was basiacally stuck at home with her for most of 3 days. I think it got her spoiled.









. She chases me into the bathroom to make sure I feed her first thing after! She is by my side while I get ready to leave, including on the sink as I put on makeup! And every day when I come home she is meowing at the door! I know she is ok when I'm not there because she knows I am coming back, sometimes when I come home early, she is all squinty eyed and surprised because she was still sleeping!
