Hi -- newbie here. We have a 5-year-old cat that has developed a bad habit recently. In the middle of the night, if he wants to go outside, he scratches at the carpet underneath our bedroom door, and has destroyed a section of the carpet in the process. He has plenty of scratching opportunity -- we have a scratching box he loves and uses daily, so that is not the issue -- he's doing this so that my husband will get up and let him out.
I argue that by doing that -- getting up and letting the cat out -- DH is reinforcing the negative behavior. I am suggesting that we keep a spray bottle by the door and spray him when he scratches, and only let him out if he meows or does something else (or allow him to wait until 6 AM rather than 4 AM!).
DH, who is very softhearted, thinks the spray bottle would be cruel, and wants to put something over the destroyed area of carpeting -- at which point, in my way of thinking, the cat will just move to another area near the door!
What do you think? The ripped up carpeting (brand new, by the way) is driving me crazy. Thanks.
I argue that by doing that -- getting up and letting the cat out -- DH is reinforcing the negative behavior. I am suggesting that we keep a spray bottle by the door and spray him when he scratches, and only let him out if he meows or does something else (or allow him to wait until 6 AM rather than 4 AM!).
DH, who is very softhearted, thinks the spray bottle would be cruel, and wants to put something over the destroyed area of carpeting -- at which point, in my way of thinking, the cat will just move to another area near the door!
What do you think? The ripped up carpeting (brand new, by the way) is driving me crazy. Thanks.