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Behavior change in younger kitten

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Well, I'm hoping you seasoned cat owners here can help me. I've always had cats in my life, but this is the first time with my own cat.

Due to circumstances in the apartment I live in, with the management deciding to no longer allow pets, I had to move my adorable 4 month old male kitten Milo to my incredibly supportive boyfriends house. This is only temporary, as I will be graduating from college soon, and then I can find a new apartment place that will accept pets. However, that's beside the point.

Thus Milo, who is incredibly attention-loving and playful, moved in with an older cat (Bonnie). We took steps to introduce them slowly and it seemed to go successfully. They play together, and can sleep and move around the house without upsetting one another. Now all of a sudden, it's changed.

He has been living there for about 3 weeks now, and now is showing worrying aggression problems. He has alway been a hand attacker, but I've been redirecting him to a toy I call Mr. Sheeps. Now whenever Bonnie wants attention, or even just with petting Milo, he is very likely to attack both hands and face. Bonnie also plays with him less, and it seems he is being far too aggressive in their play.

This is a very recent development, like only happening in the past few days. My boyfriend was very worried, because he didn't want my own cat being hurt, but at the same time, doesn't want to encourage bad behavior. I told him to talk to a vet, because he's going to go get his rabies vaccine soon, and also to put Milo into a separate room (with his litter box, water, and food) so that he can calm down and realize that he was acting poorly. I read somewhere that by not rewarding the cat with playing or attention would be best.

I am very worried for my kitten. He has always been very playful, but also loving, so I hope it's not something awful that is making him act like this. What can I do to modify his behavior? Is there anything I should or should not do? I would hate for something to happen between the two cats, or for Milo to injure someone. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
post #2 of 4
He's four months old? He's probably teething. Get him a box of bendy straws and scatter them everywhere. Any time he attack he attacks hands, feet, ankels, or face, blow a short, sharp puff of air directly in his face, say "NO" firmly, and redirect him to the straw. He needs something that has the right texture to chew. Bendy straws are great because they're a plastic cats don't chew right through, but they can be chewed on. When they get full of holes, throw them out so he doesn't accidentally ingest little pieces.

If he doesn't redirect to the straw, blow again, say NO firmly, and just walk away and ignore him. If he keeps chasing feet or whatever, then a 5-minute time-out in the bathroom is a good idea. Explain why he's going in there to him on your way. But toss some straws in there. And when you're done, don't say anything to him, just open the door without looking in or at him or saying anything and walk away.

He's also a kitten, don't forget - so he needs a lot of attention and play time. Ignoring him by keeping him in another room really isn't the answer.

Also, just like human children, he will learn best from the positive reinforcement. Whenever he's playing appropriately, praise the heck out of him. When he doesn't attack a hand and goes for a straw, praise the heck out of him. When he redirects to a straw from a hand or whatever, praise the heck out of him. You get the idea.

...he does need to learn that human body parts are NOT toys, and both of you MUST be consistent about this. ...but I think this phase only lasts a month or so. I never asked our vet, and our gang all seemed to only have the issue for a few weeks.
post #3 of 4
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Ah, thank you. I'll start doing that right away. I'm probably just being a worrywart, but this does take a load off my mind. Thank you again
post #4 of 4
We only knew about the teething timing because that is when our vet neuters/spays cats. So we were on the watch for the first baby tooth and knew to expect teething. But a lot of people get worried about their cats getting really "bitey" and attacking people - and it's just teething. It makes it easier on everyone to handle it correctly - but they grow out of it soon enough.
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