How to teach a BRAT her limits?

My cats are so energetic and active I let them climb the Xmas tree (as a friend says it's the season of giving I'm giving them fun ) they go on the counters I just wipe before use, i have cat beds on top of the fridge and pantry. Like many cats they love to be up high and though there are plenty of cat trees the fridge is a favourite and has a great view for bird watching.

All collectables are locked safely away and anything else is secured with blu-tak so can't be knocked off. They are Ocicats after all

Stalking your other cat, perhaps she is bored and this is her way of trying to play.

Jordan is now 6 & I have had no luck training him not to get on things, so I can be of no help with that.

Isaac can be a bit of a bully, so far the only thing I have found is teaching him the "leave it" command. It may sound funny, but I can get him to listen to me about 60% of the time when he is about to attack Levi (not great statisticly, but this is still a cat we are talking about). When he listens, I give him lots of praise & tell him what a good boy he is. I know people say cats can't be trained, but they can you just need to figure out what motivates them and be more paitient than you would be with a dog.

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We have been able to mostly train our three to stay off the counters and fridge using a bunch of soda cans with rocks/beans inside and tied together on a string. I spaced them out along all the counters, and when the cats jump up, they inevitably bump the string, causing all the cans to fall to the floor in a horrible crash. This helped alot when we were not home and couldn't catch them in the act, and even now if they hear a can jiggle around (since I keep them in a spare cupboard, just in case) they all jump...and get this look like "I didn't do it, mom, I promise!"

I dont know about the whole counters and tree thing because the counters are free space for the cats! One of the few spaces they can hide from the dog and with 2 out of my three Ive managed to get lucky and not have the tree bothered..Im not counting on being that lucky with GiGi but as for the stalking thing. The only thing Ive found that helps me with Herc stalking Fatman is me stalking Herc in return. He DOES NOT like being the stalked one..and even though I know its just for play Fatman doesnt like it so I try and keep Herc from doing it. When I catch Herc doing it is say his name really slow in a low low voice and then start stalking him and when I do that he runs onto the bed and lays there like "mom I wasnt doing nothin I swear" and he will stop for most of the day till he gets playful again and starts trilling and chirping at Fatman to play with him!

Do you have enough vertical space for her that is kitty only? Like lots of trees and perhaps also making her her own shelving with comfy sleep spots covered with her favorite type of material to sleep on and her toys dangling? She obviously needs to be UP. I think if you give her those spaces it will go along way to keeping her off your husbands shelves. Also, when she goes on thos no-no areas, tell her NO and put her on her tree or shelf.

Our collectibles are packed away in boxes until we get shelving with glass fronts.

I find it easier to use dollar store picture frames and not have knick knacks out, than try to keep them out of expensive breakables. We thought we were going to do a Christmas tree this year, but are having second thoughts...I bought plastic ornaments, but all of my cats are pretty active--even my senior guy.

I have a cat like Annie. Her name is Zoey and she drives me crazy sometimes, well most the time, but I love her with all my heart. She has learned that when she yowls and howls I pay attention because if I don't she is going to do something really naughty(I have reinforced her bad behavior by catering to her whenever she acts up). She is on and into everything. She also stalks my poor abyssinian cat Dion. He is such a mellow timid guy and she terrorizes him on a daily basis. I wish he would stand up for himself and stand his ground with her.

We don't have one cat that exhibits the same behavior problems, we have two that exhibit parts. Flowerbelle doesn't listen (she's deaf anyway) to rules about where to go. She intentionally knocks things off shelves and tables in order to get attention.

We dealt with the counter problem by completely covering them with stuff that should have been in cabinets. It took about 6 weeks and was a complete PIA, but she finally gave up trying to figure out how to get on there - and after that amount of time, she lost interest, I guess. Now we have cat trees about 2 1/2 feet from the counter - so she can go up without the counters, so I'm sure that helps.

As to the rest... we've learned to leave nothing on a table or shelf that we care if it breaks (or that can be broken). Don't know what else to do!

The real problem, Annie stalking/cornering Ophelia... we have a somewhat similar problem with Lazlo towards Billy. Lazlo hated him from day 1. Fortunately Lazlo is enough of a wuss that all he does is run at Billy - who hunkers down and won't stand up for himself. But Laz goes no further than that. But it made Billy very scared of him, so we worked hard to stop Lazlo and get Billy unafraid. It's been a year (as of today!) that Bill's been inside. Lazlo's aggressiveness calmed down a while ago - but every once in a while (and the unpredictability of it is a different problem) he'll still run after Bill!

We just keep up the scent swapping, praise Lazlo to high heaven any time he's around Bill NOT doing anything, we feed them treats near each other, we always play with Lazlo first then Billy, we give Lazlo brushes first then Billy - and when Lazlo starts staring at Bill, we tell him to knock it off or take off - and he definitely has learned what we mean.

But we focus on encouraging non-interaction (if not positive interaction) and we focus WAY more on the positive reinforcement of Lazlo ignoring Billy than anything. I don't know whether things slowed down just because of the amount of time or because of our efforts.... but Billy is at least comfortable moving around throughout the whole place (usually). The only place he doens't really go that he tried to for a while is the front window, because Laz is often up there. But we have definitely achieved Lazlo happily sleeping on the pillows over my head, and Billy curled up next to me using my shoulder as a pillow... and Lazlo wanting to leave and not staring at or meowing at Billy, but just walking over/around him to go - and Billy not freaking that Lazlo's that close.