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capt_jordi

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I am so freaking miserable! The Beau and I have been together for 7 years in December. We starting dating my Sophomore year of high school. We've been through thick and thin and always had each other around. We've never gone to bed without at least a quick phone call and a good night. And rarely ever more than a week without seeing each other. And thats only because he moved an hour and a half away a few months back. But we still talk all the time and text each other all the time.
Sunday morning I had to take him to the airport for a business trip to China. He wont be back until the 24th...
I'm super excited for him and I know he's going to have fun and its going to be great for him to get to go and to suck up to the boss some. But I am freaking miserable!
His flight left at 8:40 yesterday morning and he didnt actually get into the apartment until around 1 this afternoon... I have been a nervous wreck since I dropped him off! I've gotten a few texts saying where he was and how he was doing and a quick phone call before he left Minneapolis but thats it. I've done nothing but mope around and cry! I am hoping that I get to talk to him on Skype before bed but I'm not sure


I dont know how I'm going to last 3 weeks! I need some ideas to keep myself busy
I have a feeling I'm going to be eating a lot and doing nothing but sitting around on the internet if I'm not careful...

Maybe I can get the girls together for a girls night or something...
 

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Go have fun. Invite your friends over and have "parties" - food and movies. Go do things he doesn't like doing.

I'm not sure if I'd miss my DH or not. Terrible I know. But sometimes he gets on my nerves so much I wish I could have a vacation from him.
 

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Hey Jordan, don´t feel alone!..
you have TCS, and FB,..

he have FB my friend?...I mean furthermore to txt by phone, you can comunicate by FB or skype as well you said.,,...

think positive!...
 
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Thats the thing, we always do stuff together! I know I'm going to a concert thursday night but besides that dunno what I'll be doing. Most of my friends are either in a relationship or are busy... hopefully I can at least get them together for a girls night or maybe go out clubbing

he has a facebook but I doubt he will get on it at all over there. Maybe for a few but who knows!
 

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Nuh uh...might give me away!
Originally Posted by capt_jordi

Thats the thing, we always do stuff together! I know I'm going to a concert thursday night but besides that dunno what I'll be doing. Most of my friends are either in a relationship or are busy... hopefully I can at least get them together for a girls night or maybe go out clubbing

he has a facebook but I doubt he will get on it at all over there. Maybe for a few but who knows!
I thought FB was either banned or at the least very difficult to access in China. I have a FB friend who lives there and she's mentioned a couple of times that it's difficult to access FB there.

Anyway, I wouldn't let him know how miserable you are. It's fine to say that you miss him, wish he were there, etc. but he'd be upset to know how sad you are.
I'm sure he'll be back before you know it.
 
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Originally Posted by emrldsky

I thought FB was either banned or at the least very difficult to access in China. I have a FB friend who lives there and she's mentioned a couple of times that it's difficult to access FB there.

Anyway, I wouldn't let him know how miserable you are. It's fine to say that you miss him, wish he were there, etc. but he'd be upset to know how sad you are.
I'm sure he'll be back before you know it.
I have another friend that is there and paid to get on it today. Dont know though. It helps that he is in an apartment owned by the boss and they have their own internet so hes not trying to find like interned cafes or anything to get on.
He knows I'm sad about it like I said we've never had to be away from each other like this. Its mostly because I cant hide how I'm feeling from him. But hes always great at cheering me up and making me smile so its okay
 

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Awwww, I would feel the same way!

Have some girls nights, and read books, and rent girly movies. I always use time away from DH as girly movie time.

Hang in there!
 

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You need to do things so you have something to talk about with him when you can. Do you think he would like to hear "I didn't do anything, miss you too much, etc."?????

Go see a few movies to share with him, a walk in some of the parks and tell him what you saw or did, keep a little journal for him in what happened each day (or every other day).

And if you are good at writing, why not write some "hot" stories about him and you and let him read them later. I used to do that with hubby when we were dating long distance - write fantasy stories that just involved the two of us. He keeps them locked up
 
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Originally Posted by GoldenKitty45

You need to do things so you have something to talk about with him when you can. Do you think he would like to hear "I didn't do anything, miss you too much, etc."?????

Go see a few movies to share with him, a walk in some of the parks and tell him what you saw or did, keep a little journal for him in what happened each day (or every other day).

And if you are good at writing, why not write some "hot" stories about him and you and let him read them later. I used to do that with hubby when we were dating long distance - write fantasy stories that just involved the two of us. He keeps them locked up
Hmm not a bad idea


I was so excited when my Skype beeped at me this morning. I believe its the first time I have ever been excited to wake up before 6 AM! LOL!

I think once we get used to the time difference things will be much better! And I'm also thinking to go to lots of concerts and goof off with the girls. And I also plan on stealing his 360 and his Modern Warfare 2 and getting good at it before he can play! Heheheh. I may steal his car too. I need to learn to drive a 5 speed ASAP!

I do have one kind of mean prank that I'm pulling on him though!
I've been teasing him for a while that I'm gonna paint his kitchen lime green! So I'm gonna go to his house and take a few pictures of his kitchen and get a friend to photoshop it and make it look like I painted! That should be a fun email
But it will also let us see how the kitchen will actually look that color!
 
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