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Hi.
I am new to the forums, but I am in dire need of some help/advice.
I've been having a problem with my cats and I don't know where else to turn. I'm trying to introduce two cats to one another, and apparently failing miserably. My husband is one step away from returning the shelter cat, but I'm already too attached. Here's the full story:
About two months ago, my elderly cat Otis passed on. My cat, Shady, was all by himself, and I decided to take in a cat from a shelter named Ghost.
Ghost is 1 year old, and Shady is 6.
I brought Ghost home from the shelter and tried several things to try to introduce him to Shady. I tried putting up a baby gate and letting them visit one another through there, I tried using the Feliway spray (which I don't know if I'm even using right), I tried feeding them at the same time so they could see each other while they eat, and I tried reescue remedy, which, quite frankly, didn't seem to work, because it made Shady throw up and be more nervous and it did nothing to Ghost.
I am at the end of my rope here. The main problem is this: Shady is terrified of the new cat. He puffs up, puts his ears back, growls and just looks scary. Any other cat would be terrified of this, but Ghost is completely deaf. Each time Ghost sees Shady, Shady runs. Ghost wants to play, and he chases him. This always ends in a ball of growling and hissing, all being done by Shady. Ghost never growls or hisses at all.
Today I let them eat dinner together and it erupted into another horrible fight, this time with Shady's face getting badly bitten. It was really awful and scary.
I need major help. I don't wish to return Ghost to the shelter. He and Shady are both really nice cats... please can someone tell me what I am doing wrong?
I am new to the forums, but I am in dire need of some help/advice.
I've been having a problem with my cats and I don't know where else to turn. I'm trying to introduce two cats to one another, and apparently failing miserably. My husband is one step away from returning the shelter cat, but I'm already too attached. Here's the full story:
About two months ago, my elderly cat Otis passed on. My cat, Shady, was all by himself, and I decided to take in a cat from a shelter named Ghost.
Ghost is 1 year old, and Shady is 6.
I brought Ghost home from the shelter and tried several things to try to introduce him to Shady. I tried putting up a baby gate and letting them visit one another through there, I tried using the Feliway spray (which I don't know if I'm even using right), I tried feeding them at the same time so they could see each other while they eat, and I tried reescue remedy, which, quite frankly, didn't seem to work, because it made Shady throw up and be more nervous and it did nothing to Ghost.
I am at the end of my rope here. The main problem is this: Shady is terrified of the new cat. He puffs up, puts his ears back, growls and just looks scary. Any other cat would be terrified of this, but Ghost is completely deaf. Each time Ghost sees Shady, Shady runs. Ghost wants to play, and he chases him. This always ends in a ball of growling and hissing, all being done by Shady. Ghost never growls or hisses at all.
Today I let them eat dinner together and it erupted into another horrible fight, this time with Shady's face getting badly bitten. It was really awful and scary.
I need major help. I don't wish to return Ghost to the shelter. He and Shady are both really nice cats... please can someone tell me what I am doing wrong?