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i apologize in advance for the novel, but i don't know what to do anymore
our cat bailey is reaaally skittish. we've never really understood it because we've had him since he was born. he has ALWAYS been loved and cared for, and i can't stand seeing him like this.
at one point about 3 years ago he dissappeared, and we were heartbroken. finally, 8 months later, he returned emaciated, and in horrible shape. after we nursed him back to health, he calmed down quite a bit and finally started trusting people again, only family though.
about 5 months ago, we ended up moving to another house and we had to transport him in a cat carrier and it was an absolute nightmare, and hasn't been the same since. we got him to the new house and slowly tried to acclimate him to it and that lasted for about 2 days, until one day he was roaming around the house and hid behind the couch in our living room, and when my sister went to go out back he took off and hid under our deck for almost a week. as the months have passed, he finally started coming up to doors as if he wants to come in but he's too scared. he actually has come inside on his own a couple times, but stayed right next to the door just incase he had to run back out. we never pushed him to come in more, because we didn't want to scare him. but now that it's fall and it's raining, what can we do? i don't want him outside in the cold. is there ANY way we can help him? i have these tablets that i got from petco for my other cat when i adopted her(who he likes a lot)to help reduce her stress while she got used to her new home. should we bring him inside and sneak some into his food?
i'm just really afraid that he'll never trust us again. ahhh i wish there was some way humans could speak cat language! lol. but yeah, any help would be so appreciated, thanks for taking the time to read my post.
at one point about 3 years ago he dissappeared, and we were heartbroken. finally, 8 months later, he returned emaciated, and in horrible shape. after we nursed him back to health, he calmed down quite a bit and finally started trusting people again, only family though.
about 5 months ago, we ended up moving to another house and we had to transport him in a cat carrier and it was an absolute nightmare, and hasn't been the same since. we got him to the new house and slowly tried to acclimate him to it and that lasted for about 2 days, until one day he was roaming around the house and hid behind the couch in our living room, and when my sister went to go out back he took off and hid under our deck for almost a week. as the months have passed, he finally started coming up to doors as if he wants to come in but he's too scared. he actually has come inside on his own a couple times, but stayed right next to the door just incase he had to run back out. we never pushed him to come in more, because we didn't want to scare him. but now that it's fall and it's raining, what can we do? i don't want him outside in the cold. is there ANY way we can help him? i have these tablets that i got from petco for my other cat when i adopted her(who he likes a lot)to help reduce her stress while she got used to her new home. should we bring him inside and sneak some into his food?
i'm just really afraid that he'll never trust us again. ahhh i wish there was some way humans could speak cat language! lol. but yeah, any help would be so appreciated, thanks for taking the time to read my post.